Honestly (and selfishly), I created this platform after getting way too frustrated with mainstream dating apps that didn’t reflect what many women like me were looking for.

Les-be-honest. Navigating the queer dating world can come with its challenges especially when many platforms focus on quantity over quality. I, for one, was tired of swiping on women who would never want to have a serious monogamous lesbian relationship.

So I decided to create the best lesbian dating site for top-tier queer women who genuinely want to find their Future Wife™.

Unlike other lesbian apps, The Queer Country Club® is the best dating site for MONOGAMOUS women who love women who want to find, live, and die with ONE woman.

The Queer Country Club® offers a refreshing environment built around authenticity, community, and meaningful interactions and is therefore naturally the best choice for queer women to meet their life-long partner and connect with top-tier lesbians.

No, this is not a regular lesbian dating app; it’s the first Lesbian Dating Club for exclusively monogamous, top-tier queer women. 🤌

This swipe-free WLW dating site includes AI Matching, “Meet Your Future Wife™ Live” virtual lesbian speed dating events, community, and live coaching…the ultimate queer dating experience!

Many members say they feel at ease during our live virtual events, and some have even found love after attending just one.

Thanks to the relaxed, welcoming vibe, meaningful connections often spark quickly. For queer women curious about what’s possible inside this space... something extraordinary could be waiting.

A high-value queer woman is someone who possesses integrity and passion, knows who she is, knows what she wants out of life and love…and won’t settle until she meets someone worthy of her heart.

A platform that prioritizes intentional connections over casual encounters, this space is built exclusively for queer women who value genuine, long lasting relationships.

We’ve built a dating club for queer women who want more—more out of life, love, and partnership. Here, connections are rooted in shared values, mutual life goals, and intentional conversations.

The best lesbian dating site filled with top-tier queer women finally exists! 

We are designed for queer women who are looking for that one meaningful connection with THE ONE who share similar values as them.

Staying true to this vision, our community is made up of queer women who are fulfilled by their careers, passions, and everyday life, desiring authentic connections with others who value intentional relationships.

This is not a basic lesbian app - it’s the first Lesbian Dating Club for exclusively monogamous, top-tier queer women that includes community events, virtual matching, and more! 🤌

We are a lesbian dating site comprised of a growth-minded community. Ever dreamed of a virtual Rolodex of the most incredible lesbians on the planet? Our platform features a central member directory that’s easy to explore!

This swipe-free WLW club includes AI Matching and “Meet Your Future Wife™ Live” virtual speed dating events. Our live virtual events are super down-to-earth, and some members have found love after attending just one! Will you be next?

What makes it beyond the best lesbian dating app out there? Our AI-powered virtual lesbian matchmaking is included in our membership. (Did you know traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments of $3,000 to $50,000?!)

Plus, we have guest experts who coach on mindset, dating, and relationships...all included!

The platform has multiple value-focused chatrooms, including a voice chat room, for women to interact with each other meaningfully. Our platform is all about growth, whether that’s manifestation-minded growth and/or spiritual connection. 🧘‍♀️

The best part? Because women are screened and this is a paid service, it's not filled with typical lesbian dating app scammers and fake profiles! The women inside QCC hold values like monogamy and are on the hunt for their Future Wife™!

This platform is designed for queer women who value intentional and meaningful connection. Welcome to the ultimate queer dating experience.

🔥 No endless swiping—just real connections.

Unlike mainstream lesbian apps filled with fake profiles, straight men, poly couples, and situationships, our lesbian dating site is exclusively for a community of serious, relationship-ready queer women.

✨ We take compatibility seriously.

Queer dating isn’t easy. That’s why our AI lesbian matchmaker, Sapphic Sophi, learns from members’ feedback and adjusts, ensuring every match gets better.

💰 Investment keeps the wrong people out.We are committed to being the best lesbian dating site with high-level moderation.

A small membership fee means we attract women serious about dating—not scammers or time-wasters.

✨ Meet online and connect in real-time!Even the best lesbian dating apps don’t host intimate virtual events.

We host virtual meetups so you can build authentic connections faster—no more endless messaging that goes nowhere. Our live virtual events are super down-to-earth and some members have found love after attending just one!

This platform is designed for queer women who value intentional and meaningful connection.

Welcome to the ultimate queer dating experience.

Les-give-it-to-ya straight... and we’re really gay. 🌈 Most of our members proudly identify as lesbians and are only interested in dating other lesbians!

The Queer Country Club® welcomes those who identify and present as women. For those who are unsure of their gender identity, identify as non-binary, or present masculine, you are welcome—but we do not accept anyone who identifies as a man.

Are transsisters welcome? Duh.

The Queer Country Club® welcomes all monogamous queer women who do not identify as male.

Nope! The Queer Country Club® is a safe space for sapphics looking for lifelong monogamy. While there are many dating apps and communities that serve the poly community, this platform was created to offer something different.

As a lesbian seeking a committed monogamous relationship, our founder, Sophia Spallino, spent years scrolling through dating apps only to find misalignment — so she created Queer Country Club® to offer an intentional alternative.

Now, queer women who prioritize monogamy can connect through a platform built for depth, not hookups — a true dating club experience.

Exclusively for monogamous lesbians and queer women who date with purpose, Queer Country Club® offers a refreshing space away from hookup culture.

Those exploring poly, casual flings, or situationships have other apps that serve that purpose. This platform is for women who align with long-term, intentional connection.

We are proud of our community filled with top-tier queer women who are fulfilled by their everyday lives, careers, or creativity…but missing ONE thing…their lifelong partner.

This is why we only accept growth-minded queer women who lead extraordinary lives inside our club.

Yes, women who are keen to join do have to possess a specific set of standards and values that they adhere to on our platform.

While we celebrate everyone who is LGBTQIA+, this lesbian dating platform exists to be different from the queer dating apps available. To use our platform for dating, one must identify as non-male and monogamous.

Why? We want to make it as easy as possible for serious women who love women to find a life partner.

Upset about it? Take a chill pill. We love our non-monogamous friends, but there are plenty of other dating sites for them to connect with. Our platform was established to help women who love women and are ready to settle down and find one life partner.

To ensure the right fit for our exclusive lesbian dating platform, applicants submit an application with the initiation fee. The form and payment link are on this page.

How It Works:

(1) We review all applications with payment within 2–24 hours.

(2) Approved applicants receive an email with the next step.

(3) If not accepted, applicants receive a refund within 24–48 hours.

(4) Approved applicants have 24 hours to subscribe and officially join The Queer Country Club®.

Please note: The initiation fee is non-refundable for approved applicants who choose not to subscribe. Be sure to check your email for updates from [email protected]. If you don’t hear back within 24 hours or wish to appeal, contact us directly — we respond within 3 business days.

Nope! Approved members can cancel anytime. Membership will remain active until the end of the current billing cycle (monthly or yearly), but payments already made are non-refundable.

Hey love, Sophia Spallino here, founder of The Queer Country Club®!

Lessss-be-honest… if everyone could join, members would end up scrolling past the same duds found on free dating apps. 😩🤭 After getting fed up with the options out there (basic dating apps or $7K matchmaking), I decided to create something different… better… and actually affordable.

Yes, there’s an initiation fee — because this isn’t just a lesbian dating app. It’s the Queer Country Club®: a private community offering live events, curated matchmaking, and high-value connections.

Why the Paywall?

✔️ It filters out those who aren’t serious about intentional connections.

✔️ It keeps the club exclusive to high-caliber queer women.

✔️ It helps ensure a trusted space with like-minded members.

Most apps charge for swipes, rewinds, or “boosts” — but here, curated matches, an elite member directory, and live experiences are all included.

TBH, this is exactly what I wished existed when I was about to drop $8K on matchmaking. I wanted something exclusive… but still accessible.

For those serious about community, monogamy, and lasting love — this small investment unlocks it all.

Yes! The Queer Country Club® is a global community open to queer women everywhere. 🌍

While we welcome members from all over the world, our community currently reflects Sophia Spallino’s social media audience:

🇺🇸 70% USA

🇨🇦 10% Canada

🇬🇧 12% UK

🇪🇺🇦🇺 4% Europe & Australia

🌏 2% Latin America, Asia & Africa

As the community grows daily, our worldwide reach continues to expand — and new connections are happening all the time.

Hey love, Sophia Spallino here. I totally understand wanting to feel safe and informed. I’d be asking the same thing! 🥰

Legally, I have to protect my booty with disclaimers, 🤣 but let’s break this down clearly:

When it comes to the Queer Country Club®, I respect how private this journey can be. If I ever share community moments online, I never post members’ full names without explicit consent.

Sometimes I’ll highlight the vibe of our club by sharing anonymous testimonials or screenshots — things like: “I’ve never felt so seen!” or “This space is filled with gorgeous women!”

These are the types of uplifting comments that help other women understand what makes this space so special.

If someone publicly comments on one of my social media posts, I might repost it with a screen name because that’s public anyway.

For full transparency, you're always welcome to review our terms of service and privacy policy here.

The Queer Country Club® by Sophia Spallino LLC has a strict no-refund policy.

Once access to our community is released to a member, the service is considered used. If members cancel before the end of a billing cycle, no refunds, credits, or prorated billing will be provided.

Members may unsubscribe anytime, but all payments are final and non-refundable.

To reach us about anything else, you may email [email protected], and our business mailing address is
Sophia Spallino LLC
C/O Registered Agents Inc.
201 Rue Beauregard STE 202
Lafayette LA 70508