The Queer Country Club® is a high-caliber lesbian dating platform designed for single, monogamous queer women who value intentional connection and meaningful partnership.

Created in response to the casual focus of many dating apps, this community offers a space where emotionally available, growth-minded lesbians can meet others who prioritize depth, clarity, and alignment in their relationships.

This is not a basic LGBTQIA dating app. It is a curated dating environment centered on commitment, mutual respect, and high-quality connections. Members are sapphic, single, monogamous, and aligned in their desire to build authentic, intentional partnerships with other extraordinary women.

The Queer Country Club® serves those who want a focused, distraction-free alternative to typical dating platforms and who appreciate a community built around shared values, sincerity, and purposeful connection.

Anyone who identifies and presents as a woman, including trans women and non-binary individuals who do not identify as male, can apply to join this lesbian dating site. The majority of members identify as lesbians or WLW (women-loving-women), and all applicants must desire serious, monogamous relationships.

Yes… absolutely. You can gift a Queer Country Club® Membership to another woman. The Queer Country Club® Gift Card is a perfect holiday present, birthday surprise, post-lesbian breakup present, or thoughtful gift for a single lesbian looking for her Future Wife® or her Future Partner®.

When you buy a QCC Gift Card, you can choose between gifting a monthly plan or an annual membership plan.

This allows your recipient to join the most intentional monogamous lesbian dating community online… a safe private space filled with growth minded single queer women who are serious about real connection and lasting love. If the recipient chooses to renew after their first year or first month, the renewal is billed to her, not you.

This is one of the most meaningful gift ideas for lesbians who want to meet quality women… especially women over 30 who are tired of low effort dating apps and want curated connection inside a private lesbian dating community.

After you complete your purchase of the Queer Country Club® Gift Card, you will receive a unique gift card code within 1 to 2 business days. You will forward that private code to the recipient you are gifting.

When she enters that unique code at checkout, it will unlock her membership into Queer Country Club®. Once inside, she can immediately start connecting with aligned single queer women.

She could meet her match through AI assisted matchmaking… join intimate virtual lesbian speed dating… and step into a curated dating experience designed for women who want to find a Future Partner®. Not situationships.

This is the easiest way to give the gift of intentional lesbian dating for the holidays… birthdays… or any special celebration.

The Queer Country Club® - a dating site for lesbian women offers live virtual events such as "Your Future Wife® LIVE" speed dating nights, community discussions, and relationship coaching sessions. These events are designed to help queer women connect meaningfully and build real romantic relationships.

To ensure the right fit for our exclusive lesbian dating platform, applicants submit an application with the initiation fee. The form and payment link are on this page.

How It Works:

(1) We review all applications with payment within 2–24 hours.

(2) Approved applicants receive an email with the next step.

(3) If denied, you’ll receive a refund within 24–48 hours.

(4) If approved, you have 24 hours to subscribe and join the lesbian dating club.

If you’re approved but choose not to subscribe, the initiation fee is non-refundable. Check your email for updates from [email protected]. If you don’t hear back within 24 hours or want to appeal, email us—we’ll respond within 3 business days.

Hey love, Sophia Spallino here, founder of The Queer Country Club®! 

Lesssss-be-honest… if we let everyone in, you’d be swiping through the same duds you’ve wasted time on in free dating apps. 😩🤭 Because I got tired of what was out there (basic dating apps or matchmaking that was $7k+) I wanted to create something different…better…and affordable!

I know it’s different to see an initiation fee, but this isn’t just a lesbian dating app — it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club® with community events, virtual matchmaking, and high-value connections.

Why the Paywall?

✔️ It filters out those who aren’t serious about real connections.

✔️ It keeps the club exclusive to high-caliber queer women.

✔️ It ensures we attract quality, like-minded members.

Most dating apps nickel-and-dime you for swipes, back-swiping, and extra matches — but we include curated matches in your membership along with an elite directory and virtual events.

TBH, this is exactly what I wished existed a couple of years ago when I almost dropped $8K on a lesbian matchmaking service. 😅 I wanted something better—exclusive, but still affordable.

If you're serious about love and community, this tiny investment is your ticket in!

We are proud of our community filled with top-tier queer women who are fulfilled by their everyday lives, careers, or creativity…but missing ONE thing…their lifelong partner.

This is why we only accept growth-minded queer women who lead extraordinary lives inside our club.

Yes, women who are keen to join do have to possess a specific set of standards and values that they adhere to on our platform.

While we celebrate everyone who is LGBTQIA+, this lesbian dating platform exists to be different from the queer dating apps available. To use our platform for dating, one must identify as non-male and monogamous.

Why? We want to make it as easy as possible for serious women who love women to find a life partner.

Upset about it? Take a chill pill. We love our non-monogamous friends, but there are plenty of other dating sites for them to connect with. Our platform was established to help women who love women and are ready to settle down and find one life partner.

It is both. While its core function is as a premium dating service, The Queer Country Club® also serves as a vibrant community hub offering support, events, and coaching to nurture WLW relationships.

Les-give-it-to-ya straight... and we’re really gay. 🌈 Most of our members proudly identify as lesbians and are only interested in dating other lesbians!

The Queer Country Club® welcomes those who identify and present as women. If you are unsure of your gender identity, non-binary, or present masculine, you are welcome—but we do not accept anyone who identifies as a man.

Are transsisters welcome? Duh.

The Queer Country Club® welcomes all monogamous queer women who do not identify as male.

Nope! You can cancel anytime. Your membership will remain active until the end of your current billing cycle (monthly or yearly), but payments already made are non-refundable.

Yes and no. The Queer Country Club® dating platform is exclusively for single women who are looking for lasting love.

But our Luxury Lesbian™ Experience (Singles Events) are open to both singles and couples. We always hold 75% of space for singles to ensure women have the opportunity to meet one another, while couples join to enjoy luxury travel and community together.

Dating does take time... but how you invest that time is up to you. As a member of The Queer Country Club®, you can connect on your own schedule, without endless swiping.

If you don’t want to spend time on our dating platform at all, I highly recommend our Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking where my team and I do the work for you and personally introduce you to extraordinary women.

Our members are high-caliber, growth-minded queer women who value authenticity, success, and meaningful relationships. You’ll meet leaders, professionals, creatives, and visionaries who are on your level.

Some women choose to invest more deeply through the Luxury Lesbian™ Experience (Singles Events) or Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking, but with that being said, inside QCC alone is also where to meet lesbians on your level without needing to invest any extra time or invest into any other services.

Yes.

The Queer Country Club® occasionally extends its ethos into real-life proximity through intentionally curated, in-person social experiences designed for aligned, single lesbian women.

These experiences are not open-registration events and are not included with standard membership. Access is limited and offered separately to women who value elevated environments, discernment, and meaningful connection in real life.

Some members choose to explore these opportunities as a natural extension of The Queer Country Club® community.

Tap here to learn more about The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience (Singles Events).

Hey love, Sophia Spallino here. I totally understand wanting to feel safe and informed. I’d be asking the same thing! 🥰

When it comes to the Queer Country Club®, I respect how private this journey can be. If I ever share community moments online, I never post members’ full names without explicit consent.

Sometimes I’ll highlight the vibe of our club by sharing anonymous testimonials or screenshots — things like: “I’ve never felt so seen!” or “This space is filled with gorgeous women!”

These are the types of uplifting comments that help other women understand what makes this space so special.

If someone publicly comments on one of my social media posts, I might repost it with a screen name because that’s public anyway.

For full transparency, you're always welcome to review our terms of service and privacy policy here.

The Queer Country Club® by Sophia Spallino LLC has a strict no-refund policy.

Once you gain access to our community, the service is considered used. If you cancel before your billing cycle ends, no refunds, credits, or prorated billing will be provided.

You may unsubscribe anytime, but all payments are final and non-refundable.

To reach us about anything else, you may email [email protected], and our business mailing address is
Sophia Spallino LLC
C/O Registered Agents Inc.
201 Rue Beauregard STE 202
Lafayette LA 70508