Meet extraordinary single lesbians

at our next in-person event...

The Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Experience

An intentionally curated gathering for women who value depth, chemistry and the finer things in life

Invitation only. Limited capacity.

Join the FREE Luxury Lesbian™

Singles Circle & Get On the Waitlist for The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience

Meet The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker and Founder of The Queer Country Club®, Sophia Spallino

Sophia Spallino, the lesbian founder of the Queer Country Club™

As a lesbian over 30, I KNOW love is not enough. Lifestyle compatibility is everything. And the women I work with, ages 30 to 70, will tell you the same thing.

I came out at 29 in South Louisiana, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped fully into my truth.

But once I got here… whew. Finding quality lesbians, the ones with real careers, ambition, and a life they actually love, was harder than I expected. I was exhausted swiping through women who were just curious, still married to men, or had no real direction.

Where were the high-caliber women? The ones who knew what they wanted and had already built a life they were proud of, and were genuinely ready for real commitment?

So I did what any smart, slightly obsessive lesbian would do… I built a better way. I’ve spent over six years in the dating industry, working with thousands of women to help them not just find love, but build relationships that last.

As the founder of Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen firsthand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to queer partnership. What I do isn’t just matchmaking. It’s aligning energy, lifestyle, standards, and long-term values.

If you’re a high-caliber woman who’s done wasting time on misalignment and ready to step into a room designed for women like you, explore the path that fits you best.

You are extraordinary. Love should feel intentional, aligned, and built to last. You deserve something real.

Meet extraordinary single lesbians at our next in-person event...

The Luxury Lesbian™

Singles Experience

An intentionally curated gathering for women who value depth, chemistry, and the finer things in life

Invitation only.

Limited capacity.

Join the FREE Luxury Lesbian™

Singles Circle & Get On the Waitlist for The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience

Meet The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker and Founder of The Queer Country Club®, Sophia Spallino

As a lesbian over 30, I KNOW love is not enough. Lifestyle compatibility is everything. And the women I work with, ages 30 to 70, will tell you the same thing.

I came out at 29 in South Louisiana, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped fully into my truth.

But once I got here… whew. Finding quality lesbians, the ones with real careers, ambition, and a life they actually love, was harder than I expected. I was exhausted swiping through women who were just curious, still married to men, or had no real direction.

Where were the high-caliber women? The ones who knew what they wanted and had already built a life they were proud of, and were genuinely ready for real commitment?

Sophia Spallino, the lesbian founder of the Queer Country Club™

So I did what any smart, slightly obsessive lesbian would do… I built a better way. I’ve spent over six years in the dating industry, working with thousands of women to help them not just find love, but build relationships that last.

As the founder of Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen firsthand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to queer partnership. What I do isn’t just matchmaking. It’s aligning energy, lifestyle, standards, and long-term values.

If you’re a high-caliber woman who’s done wasting time on misalignment and ready to step into a room designed for women like you, explore the path that fits you best.

You are extraordinary. Love should feel intentional, aligned, and built to last. You deserve something real.

Ways To Work
With Sophia Spallino

PRIVATE LUXURY LESBIAN™ MATCHMAKING

  • Perfect for the private woman who wants us to do the heavy lifting

  • Curated matchmaking, personally sourcing, vetting, and introducing women who match your vision so you don’t waste time swiping or settling

  • Starts with a $333 consultation and the full investment ranges from $2k to $10k


Note: If you realize during the call that private matchmaking isn’t the right fit… Sophia will leave you with dating strategy, clarity on your desires, boundaries, and alignment.

THE QUEER COUNTRY CLUB®

  • Meet quality, high-value monogamous lesbians

  • Swipe-less dating club experience

  • Live virtual singles events

  • Proprietary AI Matching

  • As low as $17 per month

THE LUXURY LESBIAN™ EXPERIENCE

  • Event designed for growth-minded WLW women looking for love, connection, and high-caliber queer community

  • Hosted by the Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, with a legacy of creating meaningful connections

  • A thoughtfully curated single lesbian experience for women who understand the power of the right room

PERSONAL COACHING WITH SOPHIA SPALLINO

  • Dating strategies and relationship advice

  • Support reentering the dating world 

  • Breakup breakthrough closure practices

  • $333 per session

Real Women. Real Introductions.

Real Relationships.

Real Women.

Real Introductions.

Real Relationships.

Where to Meet Lesbian Women for a Serious Relationship

If you’ve been wondering where to meet lesbian women who are actually ready for a relationship… you’re not alone.

Most women are stuck on dating apps that prioritize volume over alignment.

The Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Experience was created as a different path… one designed specifically for intentional lesbian dating, where high-quality women can finally meet each other in the right environment.

The Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Experience

Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly is The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience?

The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience is an intentionally curated, in-person social experience designed for single lesbian women who value depth, chemistry, and being in the right room.

It is not a single type of event or fixed format. It is an experience-level offering centered on proximity to extraordinary women in a refined, private environment where meaningful connection can unfold naturally.

At its core, the promise is simple: the right women, in the right room, by design.

Who is The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience for?

This experience is for single lesbian women who are intentional about the spaces they place themselves in.

It resonates most with women who value real-life connection, discernment, emotional availability, and elevated environments... especially those re-entering dating after a season away and ready to meet aligned women in a grounded, low-pressure way.

What actually happens at a Luxury Lesbian™ Experience?

Each experience is thoughtfully designed to encourage organic connection rather than structured interaction.

The focus is on presence, pacing, conversation, and proximity within an intentional social environment. Specific details are shared privately once an experience is confirmed and access is granted.

How is this different from a singles party or speed dating?

The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience is matchmaking-adjacent, not a singles party.

There is no swiping, no pressure, and no performative networking. Guests are selected based on alignment and readiness, creating a private container where chemistry can unfold naturally rather than being manufactured.

Is The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience connected to The Queer Country Club®?

Yes.

The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience is an extension of the Queer Country Club® ethos brought into real-life proximity. It reflects the same values, discernment, and standards... elevated into an in-person environment for women who want more than digital connection.

What makes The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience different from other in-person dating options?

This experience prioritizes curation over volume.

Rather than open registration or entertainment-driven formats, The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience is designed around alignment, intention, and the quality of the room. It attracts women who understand that meaningful connection depends on where you place yourself.

How do I request access to The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience?

Access is offered through a private request or waitlist process.

Because capacity is intentionally limited, details are shared selectively once an experience is confirmed. Women who value discernment, readiness, and elevated environments are encouraged to request access when invited.

Is the Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Circle a dating app?

No… and that’s exactly the point.

This is not a swipe-based platform.

The Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Circle is a curated ecosystem where introductions, invitations, and experiences are designed with intention… so you can meet women who are actually aligned with your lifestyle, values, and relationship goals.

What kind of women join the Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Circle?

Women inside the Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Circle tend to be:

> Monogamous queer women

> Ages 30 to 70

> Professional, accomplished, or self-led in their own way

> Retired or still building… but active, engaged, and enjoying their life

> Feminine, masculine, or somewhere in between… but clear in who they are

> Serious about partnership and long-term compatibility

This is a space where high-quality lesbian women show up with intention… and it changes everything about the connections made here.

What happens after I join the waitlist?

As a member of the Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Circle, you’ll be the first to:

> Receive invitations to join private experiences

> Learn about opportunities to meet aligned women

> Be considered for introductions within my matchmaking ecosystem

You’re not just joining a list… you’re stepping into proximity with possibility.

Will I be matched with someone?

Not automatically.

The Luxury Lesbian™ Singles Circle is the entry point into my world.

Some women go on to be matched through my private matchmaking services… while others meet organically through curated experiences and introductions.

How do successful lesbian women meet each other?

Not through endless swiping.

They meet through:

> Proximity

> Curated environments

> Introductions within aligned networks

That’s exactly what this space is designed to create.

Can I work with Sophia Spallino as a private matchmaker?

Yes.

For women who desire a more personalized experience, I offer Platinum Private Matchmaking… where my team and I personally source, vet, and introduce you to aligned women.

Explore Private Matchmaking here.

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We create opportunities for meaningful connection based on compatibility, preferences, and participation. Results vary by individual engagement and alignment. We facilitate introductions… not specific outcomes, and do not guarantee matches or relationship results.

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Lesbian Dating Blog - Lesbian Dating By Location