Hi, I am your lesbian founder, Sophia Spallino. I got super frustrated with queer dating apps, so I decided to create something BETTER for high-value womxn who truly want to find their “Future Wife.”

The Queer Country Club™ is a dating platform and a community space for MONOGAMOUS womxn who love womxn who want to find, live, and die with ONE womxn. This is your space to meet your life-long partner and make intentional connections with high-value womxn.

No, this is not a regular old dating app; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ for high-value queer womxn that includes community events, virtual matching, and more! 🤌 

What’s a high-value queer womxn?

A queer womxn who possesses integrity and passion, knows who she is, knows what she wants out of life and love…and won’t settle until she meets someone worthy of her heart.

If you have been looking for love in a hookup world on regular dating apps, this is the platform for you to find your life partner.

We have a whole community of extraordinary queer womxn who desire more out of life and partnership… and yearn for authentic connection based on mutual life goals, values, and intentional conversations.

Firstly, it’s filled with high-value queer womxn who are fulfilled by their everyday lives, careers, or creativity…but missing ONE thing…their lifelong partner. 💏

Secondly, it’s not a basic dating app - it’s a dating platform and a growth-minded community. We host live events where we can all connect, and I even coach live inside. 🔥 Plus, we have guest experts who will coach on mindset, dating, and relationships.

Thirdly, virtual matchmaking is included inside 💞 (Did you know traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments of $3,000 to $50,000?!) The womxn inside our platform are all about growth, whether that’s manifestation-minded growth and/or spiritual connection. 🧘‍♀️ 

Fourthly, there are multiple topic-focused chatrooms on the platform to interact with womxn in meaningful ways, including a voice chat room. 🎤

And finally, the platform includes a directory of badass members you can easily navigate through! 😍

Womxn in our community are looking to connect with people who are presenting as womxn. So it really depends on what you personally identify/present as. 🙃

If you are unsure of your gender identity, non-binary, or present masculine, of course, you are welcome. But we do not accept people who identify as male.

At the end of the day, it’s up to you how you identify. Just don’t come in if you are a man and identify as a man.

Are trans sisters welcome? Duh.

Because the majority of members identify as lesbians, we tend to use a lot of she/her pronouns for convenience to our collective.

When we say "womxn,” we intentionally include everyone on the gender spectrum who does not identify as a male and would like to be part of a community of extraordinary womxn. Our founder, Sophia Spallino’s heart is to include anyone who identifies as a womxn.

According to our research and conversations with queer womxn and gender studies professors both in the USA and in Europe, we have concluded spelling womxn with an “x” creates intentional space for our friends who are not cis women.

To make our views abundantly clear: If you identify as a woman, you are a woman. But because of homophobic, hateful people, we have chosen to spell womxn with an “x,” so it is made abundantly clear that we include our trans sisters.

No. The Queer Country Club™ is a safe space for sapphics seeking lifelong monogamy. There are many dating apps and communities available for the poly community. 

As a lesbian looking for a committed monogamous relationship, our founder, Sophia Spallino, wasted a lot of time scrolling on dating apps, only to find unaligned womxn…so she created The Queer Country Club™. 

Now we don’t have to waste time getting to know womxn who don’t share the same relational value of monogamy.  

If you’re just curious, seeking multiple partners, and want casual hookups, you can get on any dating app out there. 

If you’re frustrated about wasting time looking for lifelong love in a hookup world…This is the platform for you.

We are proud of our community filled with high-value queer womxn who are fulfilled by their everyday lives, careers, or creativity…but missing ONE thing…their lifelong partner. 💏

This is why we only accept growth-minded queer womxn who lead extraordinary lives inside our club. 

Yes, womxn who are keen to join do have to possess a specific set of standards and values that they adhere to on our platform.

While we celebrate everyone who is LGBTQIA+, this platform exists to be different from the dating apps available. To use our platform for dating, one must identify as non-male and only be seeking monogamy.

Why? Because want to make it as easy as possible for serious womxn seeking womxn to find a life partner.

Upset about it? Take a chill pill. We love our non-monogamous friends, but there are plenty of other ways for them to connect and our platform was established to help womxn meet other womxn ready to settle down with a life partner.

We want to make sure that only qualified applicants that we think would be a good fit for the community are allowed into our exclusive dating platform. Therefore, we require every single person to submit an application, accompanied by the payment of initiation fee to join. You will see the relevant application and payment form when you click on any of the buttons on this page.

We will screen through every application received, that's accompanied by the payment of the initiation fee. Application forms that are submitted without payment of the initiation fee will not be entertained. 

Within 2 to 24 hours of submission, qualified applicants will receive an email from us notifying you of your successful application as well as the next steps to join us inside. 

Unsuccessful applicants will receive a refund of the initiation fee paid within 24-48 hours. 

In the event you are successful in your application but decide not to proceed with the membership subscription, kindly note that the initiation fee paid by you is non-refundable under such circumstances. 

All qualified applicants have 24 hours from the time of approval to gain access to The Queer Country Club™ by selecting and subscribing to your preferred membership plan, and onboarding onto our community platform.

Therefore, once you have submitted your application and the initiation fee, please look for emails from [email protected].

If you do not hear back from us within 24 hours of your submission or if you would like to appeal our decision, kindly send an email to [email protected]. We endeavor to get back to you within 3 business days.

No. There is no minimum contract period. You can cancel anytime. Cancellation will take effect from the next month/year when payment is due, as the case may be. Payment already made for the month/year is non-refundable.

Sophia Spallino here, founder of The Queer Country Club™.

Lesssss-be-honest…If we let everyone in…you’d be swiping through a lot of duds like just you have done on free dating platforms for years! 🤭😩

Look, I know it’s different to see an initiation fee, but this is not just a dating platform; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ that includes community events, virtual matchmaking, and more! 

Because I got tired of what was out there (basic dating apps or matchmaking that was $7k+) I wanted to create something different…better…and affordable!

Back when I first started building my business and making lots of money online, I almost dropped 8K on a matchmaker. 😅 I realize that’s simply NOT affordable or a wise investment…so I started my own platform to make connecting with high-value queer womxn easier than ever. 😍

The paywall is implemented as part of our screening process to keep this platform exclusive to other go-getter womxn willing to invest at a low cost in exchange for high-value connections. TBH, on our end, I view it as a form of natural elimination for those who do not wish to make the investment.

#Bye #SorryNotSorryAtAll 🤭

I believe that queer womxn who are serious about leveling up in life and love would be more than willing to make a tiny investment into meeting potential partners.

Plus once you are in the club, you get access to a directory of other high-caliber like-minded queer womxn, virtual matching, and live events. 🤌 This isn’t a “regular old dating app;” this is a community platform for high-value queer womxn.

This platform is accessible from every part of the world, and we open our doors to queer womxn from all around the world. We have members from the US and Canada, the UK as well as Europe.🌎

Having said that, Sophia Spallino's followers across different social media platforms are made up of queer womxn from the USA (70%), Canada (10%), the United Kingdom (14%), Europe and Australia (4%) and lastly Asia and Africa (1%).

Hence, the composition of the queer womxn in our community would likely reflect this as we continue to grow day by day. 📈

Sophia Spallino here, and I am happy to break it down for you to feel comfortable, just like I would ask too! 🥰

Legally, I have to cover my booty with disclaimers! 🤣

On social media or any of my platforms, you will see I share my business coaching clients all the time, but they want me to do that.

When it comes to my dating platform…I get that you don’t want allllllll your information spread everywhere. If I share anything posted inside, I share by blocking out members’ last names so you are not identified.

You know how I share little blurbs/screenshots on social like, “I love being in the community - I have met so many boss-ass womxn so fast!” or “I agree, I am done wasting time on dating apps!” You have seen me post those before, right? 🥰 That’s the kinds of things we share…Content that get people excited about our community! We would never call you out in a negative light or share your last name!

If you leave a comment publicly on my social media, I may raw-screenshot that. Anything left in that public sphere, like on my IG or TikTok, for instance, is public anyway. 😘

You can always review our terms of service and privacy policy here.