Frequently Asked Questions
About The Queer Country Club™

What Exactly Is The Queer Country Club™?

Honestly (and selfishly), I created the best lesbian dating platform after getting way too frustrated with queer dating apps. 

Les-be-honest. Queer dating can be tough, and I was tired of swiping on women who would never want to have a serious monogamous lesbian relationship.

So I decided to create the best lesbian dating site for top-tier queer women who genuinely want to find their Future Wife™.

Unlike other lesbian apps, The Queer Country Club™ is the best dating site for MONOGAMOUS women who love women who want to find, live, and die with ONE woman.

Ready to meet your life-long partner and make intentional connections with top-tier lesbians? Welcome to The Queer Country Club™!

Is This A Lesbian Dating App?

No, this is not a regular lesbian dating app; it’s the first Lesbian Dating Club for exclusively monogamous, top-tier queer women. 🤌 

This swipe-free WLW dating site includes AI Matching, “Meet Your Future Wife™ Live” virtual lesbian speed dating events, community, and live coaching…the ultimate queer dating experience! 

Our live virtual events are super down-to-earth—and some members have found love after attending just one!

Will you be next?

What's A High-Value Queer Woman?

A high-value queer woman is someone who possesses integrity and passion, knows who she is, knows what she wants out of life and love…and won’t settle until she meets someone worthy of her heart.

If you have been looking for love in a hookup world on regular lesbian apps, this is the platform for you to find your life partner.

We’ve built a dating club for queer women who want more—more out of life, love, and partnership. Here, connections are rooted in shared values, mutual life goals, and intentional conversations.

What Sets The Queer Country Club™ Apart From Regular Lesbian Dating Apps?

The best lesbian dating site filled with top-tier queer women finally exists! 

Just admit it. You are here because you are tired of swiping through losers. You are looking for someone who is fulfilled by her everyday life, career, or creativity…but missing ONE thing…her lifelong partner. 

This is not a basic lesbian app - it’s the first Lesbian Dating Club for exclusively monogamous, top-tier queer women that includes community events, virtual matching, and more! 🤌 

We are a lesbian dating site comprised of a growth-minded community. Ever dreamed of a virtual Rolodex of the most incredible lesbians on the planet? Our platform features a central member directory that’s easy to explore! 

This swipe-free WLW club includes AI Matching and “Meet Your Future Wife™ Live” virtual speed dating events. Our live virtual events are super down-to-earth—and some members have found love after attending just one! Will you be next?

What makes it beyond the best lesbian dating app out there? Our AI-powered virtual lesbian matchmaking is included in your membership. (Did you know traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments of $3,000 to $50,000?!) 

Plus, we have guest experts who coach on mindset, dating, and relationships...all included in your membership!

The platform has multiple value-focused chatrooms, including a voice chat room, for women to interact with each other meaningfully. Our platform is all about growth, whether that’s manifestation-minded growth and/or spiritual connection. 🧘‍♀️ 

The best part? Because women are screened and this is a paid service, it's not filled with typical lesbian dating app scammers and fake profiles! The women inside QCC hold values like monogamy and are on the hunt for their Future Wife™

Sounds Like a Dream? Welcome to the ultimate queer dating experience!

What Makes The Queer Country Club™ The Best Lesbian Dating Site?

🔥 No endless swiping—just real connections.

Unlike mainstream lesbian apps filled with fake profiles, straight men, poly couples, and situationships, our lesbian dating site is exclusively for a community of serious, relationship-ready queer women.

We take compatibility seriously.

Queer dating isn’t easy. That’s why our AI lesbian matchmaker, Sapphic Sophi, learns from your feedback and adjusts, ensuring every match gets better.

💰 Investment keeps the wrong people out.

We are committed to being the best lesbian dating site with high-level moderation. A small membership fee means we attract women serious about dating—not scammers or time-wasters.

Meet online and connect in real-time!

Even the best lesbian dating apps don’t host intimate virtual events. We host virtual meetups so you can build authentic connections faster—no more endless messaging that goes nowhere. Our live virtual events are super down-to-earth—and some members have found love after attending just one! Will you be next?

What Gender Expressions and Sexual Orientations Are Eligible To Join The Queer Country Club™?

Les-give-it-to-ya straight... and we’re really gay. 🌈 Most of our members proudly identify as lesbians and are only interested in dating other lesbians!

The Queer Country Club™ welcomes those who identify and present as women. If you are unsure of your gender identity, non-binary, or present masculine, you are welcome—but we do not accept anyone who identifies as a man.

Are transsisters welcome? Duh.

The Queer Country Club™ welcomes all monogamous queer women who do not identify as male.

I Am Looking To Date Multiple People At Once. Am I Eligible To Join The Queer Country Club™?

Nope! The Queer Country Club™ is a safe space for sapphics looking for lifelong monogamy. There are many queer dating apps and communities available for the poly community. 

As a lesbian looking for a committed monogamous relationship, our founder, Sophia Spallino, wasted a lot of time scrolling on lesbian dating apps, only to find unaligned women…so she created The Queer Country Club™. 

Now, we don’t have to waste time getting to know women who don’t share the same relational value of monogamy because the best lesbian dating app exists in the form of our dating club!  

If you're tired of wasting time looking for lifelong love in a hookup culture, this is the lesbian dating platform for you!

But if you're just curious, looking for multiple partners, or wanting casual hookups... any other dating app will do. Our club is exclusively for monogamous lesbians ready for something real.

What Are The Standards To Meet To Be Accepted Into The Queer Country Club™?

We are proud of our community filled with top-tier queer women who are fulfilled by their everyday lives, careers, or creativity…but missing ONE thing…their lifelong partner.

This is why we only accept growth-minded queer women who lead extraordinary lives inside our club.

Yes, women who are keen to join do have to possess a specific set of standards and values that they adhere to on our platform.

While we celebrate everyone who is LGBTQIA+, this lesbian dating platform exists to be different from the queer dating apps available. To use our platform for dating, one must identify as non-male and monogamous.

Why? We want to make it as easy as possible for serious women who love women to find a life partner.

Upset about it? Take a chill pill. We love our non-monogamous friends, but there are plenty of other dating sites for them to connect with. Our platform was established to help women who love women and are ready to settle down and find one life partner.

How Does One Join The Queer Country Club™?

To ensure the right fit for our exclusive lesbian dating platform, applicants submit an application with the initiation fee. The form and payment link are on this page.

How It Works:

(1) We review all applications with payment within 2–24 hours.

(2) Approved applicants receive an email with the next step.

(3) If denied, you’ll receive a refund within 24–48 hours.

(4) If approved, you have 24 hours to subscribe and join the lesbian dating club.

If you’re approved but choose not to subscribe, the initiation fee is non-refundable. Check your email for updates from [email protected]. If you don’t hear back within 24 hours or want to appeal, email us—we’ll respond within 3 business days.

Is There A Minimum Commitment?

Nope! You can cancel anytime. Your membership will remain active until the end of your current billing cycle (monthly or yearly), but payments already made are non-refundable.

Why Is There An Initiation/Application Fee To Join The Queer Country Club™?

Hey love, Sophia Spallino here, founder of The Queer Country Club™! 

Lesssss-be-honest… if we let everyone in, you’d be swiping through the same duds you’ve wasted time on in free dating apps. 😩🤭 Because I got tired of what was out there (basic dating apps or matchmaking that was $7k+) I wanted to create something different…better…and affordable!

I know it’s different to see an initiation fee, but this isn’t just a lesbian dating app — it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club with community events, virtual matchmaking, and high-value connections.

Why the Paywall?

✔️ It filters out those who aren’t serious about real connections.

✔️ It keeps the club exclusive to high-caliber queer women.

✔️ It ensures we attract quality, like-minded members.

Most dating apps nickel-and-dime you for swipes, back-swiping, and extra matches — but we include curated matches in your membership along with an elite directory and virtual events.

TBH, this is exactly what I wished existed a couple of years ago when I almost dropped $8K on a lesbian matchmaking service. 😅 I wanted something better—exclusive, but still affordable.

If you're serious about love and community, this tiny investment is your ticket in!

Is The Queer Country Club™ Accessible Worldwide? If So, Where Are Most Of The Queer Womxn From?

Yes! The Queer Country Club™ is a global community open to queer womxn everywhere. 🌍

While we welcome members from all over the world, our community currently reflects Sophia Spallino’s social media audience:

🇺🇸 70% USA

🇨🇦 10% Canada

🇬🇧 14% UK

🇪🇺🇦🇺 4% Europe & Australia

🌏 1% Asia & Africa

As we grow daily, our worldwide reach continues to expand—who knows where love will take you next?

Will My Personal Information Be Shared For Marketing?

Sophia Spallino here, and I am happy to break it down for you to feel comfortable, just like I would ask too! 🥰

Legally, I have to cover my booty with disclaimers! 🤣

On social media or any of my platforms, you will see I share my business coaching clients all the time, but they want me to do that.

When it comes to my dating platform…I get that you don’t want allllllll your information spread everywhere. If I share anything posted inside, I share by blocking out members’ last names so you are not identified.

You know how I share little blurbs/screenshots on social like, “I love being in the community - I have met so many boss-ass women so fast!” or “I agree, I am done wasting time on dating apps!” You have seen me post those before, right? 🥰 That’s the kinds of things we share…Content that get people excited about our community! We would never call you out in a negative light or share your last name!

If you leave a comment publicly on my social media, I may raw-screenshot that. Anything left in that public sphere, like on my IG or TikTok, for instance, is public anyway. 😘

You can always review our terms of service and privacy policy here.

What Is Your Refund Policy?

The Queer Country Club™ by Sophia Spallino LLC has a strict no-refund policy.

Once you gain access to our community, the service is considered used. If you cancel before your billing cycle ends, no refunds, credits, or prorated billing will be provided.

You may unsubscribe anytime, but all payments are final and non-refundable.

To reach us about anything else, you may email [email protected], and our business mailing address is
Sophia Spallino LLC
C/O Registered Agents Inc.
201 Rue Beauregard STE 202
Lafayette LA 70508

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