Honestly (and selfishly), I created the best lesbian dating platform after getting way too frustrated with queer dating apps. 

Les-be-honest. Queer dating can be tough, and I was tired of swiping on women who would never want to have a serious monogamous lesbian relationship.

So I decided to create the best lesbian dating site for top-tier queer women who genuinely want to find their Future Wife®.

Unlike other lesbian apps, The Queer Country Club® is the best dating site for MONOGAMOUS women who love women who want to find, live, and die with ONE woman.

Ready to meet your life-long partner and make intentional connections with top-tier lesbians? Welcome to The Queer Country Club®!

Anyone who identifies and presents as a woman, including trans women and non-binary individuals who do not identify as male, can apply to join this lesbian dating site. The majority of members identify as lesbians or WLW (women-loving-women), and all applicants must desire serious, monogamous relationships.

The Queer Country Club® - a dating site for lesbian women offers live virtual events such as "Meet Your Future Wife™ LIVE" speed dating nights, community discussions, and relationship coaching sessions. These events are designed to help queer women connect meaningfully and build real romantic relationships.

To ensure the right fit for our exclusive lesbian dating platform, applicants submit an application with the initiation fee. The form and payment link are on this page.

How It Works:

(1) We review all applications with payment within 2–24 hours.

(2) Approved applicants receive an email with the next step.

(3) If denied, you’ll receive a refund within 24–48 hours.

(4) If approved, you have 24 hours to subscribe and join the lesbian dating club.

If you’re approved but choose not to subscribe, the initiation fee is non-refundable. Check your email for updates from [email protected]. If you don’t hear back within 24 hours or want to appeal, email us—we’ll respond within 3 business days.

Hey love, Sophia Spallino here, founder of The Queer Country Club®! 

Lesssss-be-honest… if we let everyone in, you’d be swiping through the same duds you’ve wasted time on in free dating apps. 😩🤭 Because I got tired of what was out there (basic dating apps or matchmaking that was $7k+) I wanted to create something different…better…and affordable!

I know it’s different to see an initiation fee, but this isn’t just a lesbian dating app — it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club® with community events, virtual matchmaking, and high-value connections.

Why the Paywall?

✔️ It filters out those who aren’t serious about real connections.

✔️ It keeps the club exclusive to high-caliber queer women.

✔️ It ensures we attract quality, like-minded members.

Most dating apps nickel-and-dime you for swipes, back-swiping, and extra matches — but we include curated matches in your membership along with an elite directory and virtual events.

TBH, this is exactly what I wished existed a couple of years ago when I almost dropped $8K on a lesbian matchmaking service. 😅 I wanted something better—exclusive, but still affordable.

If you're serious about love and community, this tiny investment is your ticket in!

We are proud of our community filled with top-tier queer women who are fulfilled by their everyday lives, careers, or creativity…but missing ONE thing…their lifelong partner.

This is why we only accept growth-minded queer women who lead extraordinary lives inside our club.

Yes, women who are keen to join do have to possess a specific set of standards and values that they adhere to on our platform.

While we celebrate everyone who is LGBTQIA+, this lesbian dating platform exists to be different from the queer dating apps available. To use our platform for dating, one must identify as non-male and monogamous.

Why? We want to make it as easy as possible for serious women who love women to find a life partner.

Upset about it? Take a chill pill. We love our non-monogamous friends, but there are plenty of other dating sites for them to connect with. Our platform was established to help women who love women and are ready to settle down and find one life partner.

It is both. While its core function is as a premium dating service, The Queer Country Club® also serves as a vibrant community hub offering support, events, and coaching to nurture WLW relationships.

Les-give-it-to-ya straight... and we’re really gay. 🌈 Most of our members proudly identify as lesbians and are only interested in dating other lesbians!

The Queer Country Club® welcomes those who identify and present as women. If you are unsure of your gender identity, non-binary, or present masculine, you are welcome—but we do not accept anyone who identifies as a man.

Are transsisters welcome? Duh.

The Queer Country Club® welcomes all monogamous queer women who do not identify as male.

Nope! You can cancel anytime. Your membership will remain active until the end of your current billing cycle (monthly or yearly), but payments already made are non-refundable.

Yes and no. The Queer Country Club® dating platform is exclusively for single women who are looking for lasting love. But our Luxury Lesbian Retreats are open to both singles and couples. We always hold 7–10 spaces for singles to ensure women have the opportunity to meet one another, while couples join to enjoy luxury travel and community together.

Dating does take time... but how you invest that time is up to you. As a member of The Queer Country Club®, you can connect on your own schedule, without endless swiping.

If you don’t want to spend time on our dating platform at all, I highly recommend our Private Lesbian Matchmaking, where my team and I do the work for you and personally introduce you to extraordinary women.

Our members are high-caliber, growth-minded queer women who value authenticity, success, and meaningful relationships. You’ll meet leaders, professionals, creatives, and visionaries who are on your level.

Some women choose to invest more deeply through Luxury Lesbian Retreats or Private Lesbian Matchmaking, but you can also meet women on your level with a membership in QCC alone without needing to invest any extra time or services.

Hey love, Sophia Spallino here. I totally understand wanting to feel safe and informed. I’d be asking the same thing! 🥰

Legally, I have to protect my booty with disclaimers, 🤣 but let’s break this down clearly:

When it comes to the Queer Country Club®, I respect how private this journey can be. If I ever share community moments online, I never post members’ full names without explicit consent.

Sometimes I’ll highlight the vibe of our club by sharing anonymous testimonials or screenshots — things like: “I’ve never felt so seen!” or “This space is filled with gorgeous women!”

These are the types of uplifting comments that help other women understand what makes this space so special.

If someone publicly comments on one of my social media posts, I might repost it with a screen name because that’s public anyway.

For full transparency, you're always welcome to review our terms of service and privacy policy here.

The Queer Country Club® by Sophia Spallino LLC has a strict no-refund policy.

Once you gain access to our community, the service is considered used. If you cancel before your billing cycle ends, no refunds, credits, or prorated billing will be provided.

You may unsubscribe anytime, but all payments are final and non-refundable.

To reach us about anything else, you may email [email protected], and our business mailing address is
Sophia Spallino LLC
C/O Registered Agents Inc.
201 Rue Beauregard STE 202
Lafayette LA 70508