You have everything you want...
Except your
Future Partner™
You have everything you want...
Except your
Future Partner™
YOU HAVE EVERYTHING...
EXCEPT YOUR FUTURE PARTNER™.
You’re a high-achieving lesbian who knows she deserves a high-caliber match and refuses to waste time on anything less.
What do you want? The caviar of queer women if you will...someone exceptional, ambitious, and ready for real commitment.
I personally know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
Let me bring her to you on a silver platter.
As you know, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
And for you, $2K–$10K to meet a rare, high-value woman? Beyond worth it.
Let me handpick your perfect match.
You’re a high-achieving lesbian who knows she deserves a high-caliber match and refuses to waste time on anything less.
What do you want? The caviar of queer women if you will...someone exceptional, ambitious, and ready for real commitment.
I personally know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
Let me bring her to you on a silver platter.
As you know, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
And for you, $2K–$10K to meet a rare, high-value woman? Beyond worth it.
Let me handpick your perfect match.
You’re a high-achieving lesbian who knows she deserves a high-caliber match and refuses to waste time on anything less.
What do you want? The caviar of queer women if you will...someone exceptional, ambitious, and ready for real commitment.
I personally know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
Let me bring her to you on a silver platter.
As you know, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
And for you, $2K–$10K to meet a rare, high-value woman? Beyond worth it.
Let me handpick your perfect match.
Our Platinum Private Matchmaking Process
STEP #1:
INITIAL CONSULTATION AND
PRIVATE PROFILE CREATION
I take the time to truly get to know you — your personality, lifestyle, dating history, family background, personal and professional goals, spiritual values, and the physical and emotional traits you’re drawn to in a partner.
During this process, I create your private Platinum Profile that lives behind the scenes, used solely to navigate my exclusive matchmaking network and hand-select introductions tailored just for you.
STEP #2:
SELECTION PROCESS
Although we have a database of thousands, we work exclusively with 5 to 15 Platinum Matchmaking clients at a time, ensuring you receive our full attention. Beyond our Queer Country Club database, I get contacted by nearly 100 new fresh lesbians faces worldwide every single day, giving us a continuous flow of potential matches.
But as you and I both know, out of 100 new lesbians a day, there might be 2 gorgeous, accomplished ones out of the whole bunch... and it's my job to find the needle in the haystack for you. Me and my team carefully evaluate each prospect, conducting background checks before determining if they are a strong candidate for an introduction.
STEP #3:
PERSONALIZED
MATCH REVIEW
We take a hands-on approach to matchmaking, personally connecting with you to go over potential matches. Each introduction is carefully selected with your compatibility, core values, and long-term relationship goals in mind.
STEP #4:
POST-DATE FEEDBACK AND
ONGOING MATCHMAKING
Following your date, we personally follow up with both individuals to gather feedback. Your thoughts and experiences help us fine-tune future matches, ensuring a personalized and effective matchmaking journey tailored to your relationship goals.
Our Platinum Private Matchmaking Process
STEP #1:
INITIAL CONSULTATION AND
PRIVATE PROFILE CREATION
I take the time to truly get to know you — your personality, lifestyle, dating history, family background, personal and professional goals, spiritual values, and the physical and emotional traits you’re drawn to in a partner.
During this process, I create your private Platinum Profile that lives behind the scenes, used solely to navigate my exclusive matchmaking network and hand-select introductions tailored just for you.
STEP #2:
SELECTION PROCESS
Although we have a database of thousands, we work exclusively with 5 to 15 Platinum Matchmaking clients at a time, ensuring you receive our full attention. Beyond our Queer Country Club database, I get contacted by nearly 100 new fresh lesbians faces worldwide every single day, giving us a continuous flow of potential matches.
But as you and I both know, out of 100 new lesbians a day, there might be 2 gorgeous, accomplished ones out of the whole bunch... and it's my job to find the needle in the haystack for you. Me and my team carefully evaluate each prospect, conducting background checks before determining if they are a strong candidate for an introduction.
STEP #3:
PERSONALIZED
MATCH REVIEW
We take a hands-on approach to matchmaking, personally connecting with you to go over potential matches. Each introduction is carefully selected with your compatibility, core values, and long-term relationship goals in mind.
STEP #4:
POST-DATE FEEDBACK AND
ONGOING MATCHMAKING
Following your date, we personally follow up with both individuals to gather feedback. Your thoughts and experiences help us fine-tune future matches, ensuring a personalized and effective matchmaking journey tailored to your relationship goals.
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With Sophia
PLATINUM PRIVATE LESBIAN MATCHMAKING
Perfect for the private woman who wants me to do the heavy lifting
I deliver your matches to you on a silver platter
Starts with a $247 consultation and the full investment ranges from $2k to $10k.
Note: If you realize during the call that luxury matchmaking isn't the right fit, Sophia will be sure you leave with personalized dating strategy and coaching.
THE QUEER
COUNTRY CLUB®
Meet quality, high-value monogamous lesbians
Swipe-less dating club experience
Live virtual singles events
Proprietary AI Matching
As low as $17 per month
PERSONAL COACHING WITH SOPHIA SPALLINO
Dating strategies and relationship advice
Support reentering the dating world
Breakup breakthrough closure practices
$247 per session
About The Founder
As a lesbian over 30, I KNOW love is not enough. Lifestyle compatibility is everything.
I came out at 29, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped into my truth.
But once I got here? Whew. Finding quality lesbians... you know, the ones with actual careers, ambition, and a life they love, was harder than I expected.
I was sick of swiping through women who were “just curious,” still married to men, or had zero direction. Like, where were the high-value women? The ones who knew what they wanted, had their own thing going, and were actually ready for real commitment?
So, I did what any smart, slightly obsessive lesbian would do... I figured out a better way. I’ve spent over five years in the dating industry, working with over a thousand women to help them not just find love, but keep it.
As the founder of The Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen firsthand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to queer relationships.
My expertise isn’t just about matchmaking; it’s about curating compatibility, emotional intelligence, and long-term alignment.
If you’re a high-value woman who’s done wasting time on the wrong people and ready to meet someone who actually matches your energy, let’s talk.
Because love shouldn’t be a guessing game.
And you? You deserve the real deal.
About The Founder
As a lesbian over 30, I KNOW love is not enough. Lifestyle compatibility is everything.
I came out at 29, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped into my truth.
But once I got here? Whew. Finding quality lesbians... you know, the ones with actual careers, ambition, and a life they love, was harder than I expected.
I was sick of swiping through women who were “just curious,” still married to men, or had zero direction. Like, where were the high-value women? The ones who knew what they wanted, had their own thing going, and were actually ready for real commitment?
So, I did what any smart, slightly obsessive lesbian would do... I figured out a better way. I’ve spent over five years in the dating industry, working with over a thousand women to help them not just find love, but keep it.
As the founder of The Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen firsthand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to queer relationships.
My expertise isn’t just about matchmaking; it’s about curating compatibility, emotional intelligence, and long-term alignment.
If you’re a high-value woman who’s done wasting time on the wrong people and ready to meet someone who actually matches your energy, let’s talk.
Because love shouldn’t be a guessing game.
And you? You deserve the real deal.
IF YOU ARE TIRED OF
BASIC DATING APPS,
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Who We Match You With
We attract the kind of lesbians that everyone wants to date... but almost no one can find on their own. You know, the ones who are actually hard to meet in the wild because they’re busy living amazing lives.
Our clients are intelligent, ambitious, cultured, and self-made. They’re not just defined by their sexuality, they’re defined by the way they move through the world, initiating change, building successful careers, and creating lives they love. They’ve cultivated deep friendships, strong family bonds, and passions that go way beyond swiping on an app.
These women refuse to settle. They’re not interested in the typical dating scene full of flings, situationships, or time-wasters who “aren’t sure what they want.” They crave real, lasting connection with someone who shares their drive, their values, and their vision for the future.
And they get that finding the right partner is just as important as building a business, advancing a career, or achieving personal goals. They’re ready to put as much intention into their love life as they do into everything else they excel at.
That’s where we come in.
Our matchmaking pool is filled with distinguished, high-value women who trust us to help them find something real. They count on our expertise, insight, and ability to curate connections that actually go somewhere.
If you’re the kind of woman who knows her worth and won’t settle for anything less than extraordinary… you’re exactly the kind of client we match.
Who We Match You With
We attract the kind of lesbians that everyone wants to date... but almost no one can find on their own. You know, the ones who are actually hard to meet in the wild because they’re busy living amazing lives.
Our clients are intelligent, ambitious, cultured, and self-made. They’re not just defined by their sexuality, they’re defined by the way they move through the world, initiating change, building successful careers, and creating lives they love. They’ve cultivated deep friendships, strong family bonds, and passions that go way beyond swiping on an app.
These women refuse to settle. They’re not interested in the typical dating scene full of flings, situationships, or time-wasters who “aren’t sure what they want.” They crave real, lasting connection with someone who shares their drive, their values, and their vision for the future.
And they get that finding the right partner is just as important as building a business, advancing a career, or achieving personal goals. They’re ready to put as much intention into their love life as they do into everything else they excel at.
That’s where we come in.
Our matchmaking pool is filled with distinguished, high-value women who trust us to help them find something real. They count on our expertise, insight, and ability to curate connections that actually go somewhere.
If you’re the kind of woman who knows her worth and won’t settle for anything less than extraordinary… you’re exactly the kind of client we match.
Why Our Matchmaking Process Works
DISCREET SEARCHING
We work with high-caliber women who value their privacy. Everything shared with us stays strictly confidential while we quietly do the matchmaking magic behind the scenes. Take the first step to work with Sophia and let us handle the rest, discreetly and thoughtfully.
NO FAKE MEMBERS
No catfish. No “just curious” women. No married ladies looking for a side fling. Every single person in our matchmaking pool is vetted and verified to ensure they’re actually serious about finding a life partner.
EXCLUSIVITY MATTERS
We don’t take on just anyone. Our screening process ensures we’re only working with high-value, commitment-ready women who are truly looking for long-term love. If we don’t think we can meet your expectations? We won’t waste your time.
A PERSONALIZED APPROACH
Sophia Spallino and her team of real humans are working for you. We keep it small and selective, only 5 to 15 clients at a time, so that every match is thoughtful, intentional, and tailored to your lifestyle, values, and relationship goals. You deserve that one-on-one attention, and we make sure you get it.
MORE THAN JUST AN INTRODUCTION
A great match is just the beginning. We provide insight, feedback, and expert guidance to help you navigate dating with confidence. From first impressions to deep connections, we set you up for long-term success.
100% CONFIDENTIALITY
Your love life is your business, and we treat it that way. Every detail stays private, for matchmaker eyes only. No public profiles, no unnecessary exposure; just discreet, high-touch matchmaking. If you’re ready to date with intention and find a partner who’s truly on your level, this is where it happens.
This Is So Much More
Than The Most Elite
WLW Dating Platform
Participate in virtual matchmaking
so you get a chance to be matched with the women of your dreams who is looking for a long term monogamous relationship.
Valued at $1,164 annually...
Meet single lesbians live
at monthly virtual “Meetup and Mingle” events to connect live with other extraordinary queer women.
Valued at $528 annually...
Get access to a thriving community
of growth minded women for dating, friendship and networking where you will build meaningful relationships that foster personal and professional growth.
Priceless...
Join my quarterly community coaching
sessions to attract abundance into your life, step into your full potential and break through old patterns with life coaching.
Valued at $1,788 annually...
Join specially curated expert workshops
every quarter so you could level up in personal development, romantic relationships and professional opportunities.
Valued at $788 annually...
Get special privileges to exclusive events
simply by being a part of The Queer Country Club™.
Priceless...
How Much Does It
Cost To Join The
Queer Country Club™?!
This is not a regular old dating app; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ for high-value queer women that includes community events, virtual matching, and more!
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking requires a hefty investment
of $3k to $50k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is less than $50.
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price
of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get…
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5,000 to $50,000.
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is
less than $50!
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get...
1
INITIATION FEE
(One-Off Payment with Application)
$47 only
2
MEMBERSHIP FEE
(Recurring Monthly or Yearly Membership)
MONTHLY
$17
YEARLY
$97
How Much Does It
Cost To Join The
Queer Country Club™?!
This is not a regular old dating app; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ for high-value queer womxn that includes community events, virtual matching, and more!
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5,000 to $50,000.
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments
of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is barely $50.
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price
of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online membership can get…
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking requires a hefty investment of $3k to $50k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is
less than $50!
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get...
1
INITIATION FEE
(One-Off Payment with Application
$47 only
2
MEMBERSHIP FEE
(Recurring Monthly or Annual Membership)
Monthly
$17
or
Annual
$97
Participate In Virtual Matchmaking So You Get A Chance To Be Matched With The Women Of Your Dreams
Attend Monthly Virtual Meet-Ups Within The Community So You Get To Connect With Other Extraordinary Queer Women
Get Access to A Thriving Community of Growth-Minded Women for Dating, Friendship and Networking
Step Into Your Full Potential and Break Through Old Patterns With Life Coaching
Join Specially Curated Expert Workshops Every Quarter
Get Special Privileges To Exclusive Events Simply By Being A Part of The Queer Country Club™
Total Annual value Of The
Queer Country Club™
$4,268
But
Your Total Investment Is Only:
$47 + $97
Initiation Fee + Annual Access = Best Value
OR
$47 + $17
Initiation Fee + Monthly Access
Frequently Asked Questions
Will I only meet other clients of Sophia Spallino?
We will pair you with both clients of Sophia Spallino, members of the The Queer Country Club® and specific compatible singles we have sought out on your behalf.
But everyone we match and introduce has been vetted by us through a data collection process and background check.
What is different about Sophia Spallino's Platinum Private Lesbian Matchmaking?
Being a luxury personal service, we have a team of dedicated persons led by Sophia Spallino working for you. Our goal is to match you with the person most compatible with your preferences.
We also provide personalized dating coaching to help you be your best self.
What type of single lesbians will I meet?
We introduce you to vetted high-value, single, monogamous lesbians who are seeking THE ONE just like you. Our clients and your potential matches come from all walks of life, different range of ages, ethnicities, education levels, professions and interests.
What age range are your matchmaking clients?
We work with clients ranging from 30+ to late 70s. No matter your age, with our help, you can find the love you seek.
How many potential matches do you have in your system?
We have close to a thousand members inside of The Queer Country Club® that are seeking lifelong monogamy. These are all potential matches for you. These qualified singles live all over the United States and numerous other countries.
Will my personal information be shared for marketing?
Because this matchmaking experience is both private and exclusive, everything you share with us, including your identity and personal details, will be kept confidential.
We may reference non-identifying parts of your journey in a way that honors your privacy and never reveals any personally identifying information.
Your trust means everything to us, and your privacy is always our priority.
For more information, you can always review our terms of service and privacy policy here.
What is your refund policy?
We have a strict no refund or exchange policy.
Our service is deemed “used” after you have attended the first consultation with Sophia, as we immediately begin building your private profile and go on the hunt for your perfect match.
If you no longer wish to use our services, your may cancel the services. If you choose to stop using our services before the end of your services, you understand and accept that we will not be able to offer a refund, whether partially or in full, for the remaining part of your services.
For the sake of emphasis, we do not provide refunds, credit, or prorated billing for any canceled services. If you wish to cancel your services, you can do so directly by contacting our team at [email protected] with the subject line "PRIVATE MATCHMAKING SERVICE CANCELLATION".
To reach us about anything else, you may email [email protected], and our business mailing address is
Sophia Spallino LLC
C/O Registered Agents Inc.
201 Rue Beauregard STE 202
Lafayette LA 70508
The Queer Country Club® by Sophia Spallino
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