Luxury One-on-One Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service
You have everything you want...
Except your Future Partner™
Luxury One-on-One Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service
You have everything you want...
Except your Future Partner™
YOU HAVE EVERYTHING...
EXCEPT YOUR FUTURE PARTNER™.
You’re a high-achieving lesbian who knows she deserves a high-caliber match and refuses to waste time on anything less.
What do you want? The caviar of queer women if you will...someone exceptional, ambitious, and ready for real commitment.
I personally know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
Let me bring her to you on a silver platter.
As you know, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
And for you, $2K–$10K to meet a rare, high-value woman? Beyond worth it.
Let me handpick your perfect match.
Meet Sophia Spallino:
Your Personal Lesbian Matchmaker
You’re a high-achieving lesbian who knows she deserves a high-caliber match and refuses to waste time on anything less.
What do you want? The caviar of queer women if you will...someone exceptional, ambitious, and ready for real commitment.
Hi, I'm Sophia Spallino, and I personally know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
Let me bring her to you on a silver platter.
As you know, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
And for you, $2K–$10K to meet a rare, high-value woman? Beyond worth it.
Let me handpick your perfect match.
Meet Sophia Spallino:
Your Personal Lesbian Matchmaker
You’re a high-achieving lesbian who knows she deserves a high-caliber match and refuses to waste time on anything less.
What do you want? The caviar of queer women if you will...someone exceptional, ambitious, and ready for real commitment.
Hi, I'm Sophia Spallino, and I personally know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
Let me bring her to you on a silver platter.
As you know, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
And for you, $2K–$10K to meet a rare, high-value woman? Beyond worth it.
Let me handpick your perfect match.
Our Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service Process
STEP #1:
INITIAL CONSULTATION AND
PRIVATE PROFILE CREATION
I take the time to truly get to know you — your personality, lifestyle, dating history, family background, personal and professional goals, spiritual values, and the physical and emotional traits you’re drawn to in a partner.
During this process, I create your private Platinum Profile that lives behind the scenes, used solely to navigate my exclusive matchmaking network and hand-select introductions tailored just for you.
STEP #2:
SELECTION PROCESS
Our Platinum Private Matchmaking process is intentionally intimate and selective. While we maintain a growing database of thousands, matches are never rushed or algorithm-driven. Beyond our Queer Country Club® database, I get contacted by nearly 100 new fresh lesbians faces worldwide every single day, giving us a continuous flow of potential matches.
But as you and I both know, out of 100 new lesbians a day, finding a quality woman is like finding a needle in a haystack. It’s my job to find the women who are a perfect fit for you. Me and my team carefully evaluate each prospect, conducting background checks before determining if they are a strong candidate for an introduction.
STEP #3:
PERSONALIZED
MATCH REVIEW
We take a hands-on approach to matchmaking, personally connecting with you to go over potential matches. Each introduction is carefully selected with your compatibility, core values, and long-term relationship goals in mind.
STEP #4:
POST-DATE FEEDBACK AND
ONGOING MATCHMAKING
Follow-up is a key part of our personalized process. After introductions, feedback is gathered from both parties to support thoughtful, ongoing matchmaking and alignment.
Our Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service Process
STEP #1:
INITIAL CONSULTATION AND
PRIVATE PROFILE CREATION
I take the time to truly get to know you — your personality, lifestyle, dating history, family background, personal and professional goals, spiritual values, and the physical and emotional traits you’re drawn to in a partner.
During this process, I create your private Platinum Profile that lives behind the scenes, used solely to navigate my exclusive matchmaking network and hand-select introductions tailored just for you.
STEP #2:
SELECTION PROCESS
Our Platinum Private Matchmaking process is intentionally intimate and selective. While we maintain a growing database of thousands, matches are never rushed or algorithm-driven. Beyond our Queer Country Club® database, I get contacted by nearly 100 new fresh lesbians faces worldwide every single day, giving us a continuous flow of potential matches.
But as you and I both know, out of 100 new lesbians a day, finding a quality woman is like finding a needle in a haystack. It’s my job to find the women who are a perfect fit for you. Me and my team carefully evaluate each prospect, conducting background checks before determining if they are a strong candidate for an introduction.
STEP #3:
PERSONALIZED
MATCH REVIEW
We take a hands-on approach to matchmaking, personally connecting with you to go over potential matches. Each introduction is carefully selected with your compatibility, core values, and long-term relationship goals in mind.
STEP #4:
POST-DATE FEEDBACK AND
ONGOING MATCHMAKING
Follow-up is a key part of our personalized process. After introductions, feedback is gathered from both parties to support thoughtful, ongoing matchmaking and alignment.
What Clients Are Saying
What Clients Are Saying
Disclaimer: These testimonials reflect real experiences from clients who have worked with Sophia Spallino LLC/The Queer Country Club® across different services, including private matchmaking and the Queer Country Club®. Results vary and are not guaranteed.
Choose How You Work
With Sophia
PLATINUM PRIVATE LESBIAN MATCHMAKING
Perfect for the private woman who wants me to do the heavy lifting
I deliver your matches to you on a silver platter
Starts with a $247 consultation and the full investment ranges from $2k to $10k.
Note: If you realize during the call that luxury matchmaking isn't the right fit, Sophia will be sure you leave with personalized dating strategy and coaching.
THE QUEER
COUNTRY CLUB®
Meet quality, high-value monogamous lesbians
Swipe-less dating club experience
Live virtual singles events
Proprietary AI Matching
As low as $17 per month
PERSONAL COACHING WITH SOPHIA SPALLINO
Dating strategies and relationship advice
Support reentering the dating world
Breakup breakthrough closure practices
$247 per session
About The Founder
As a lesbian over 30, I KNOW love is not enough. Lifestyle compatibility is everything.
I came out at 29, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped into my truth.
But once I got here? Whew. Finding quality lesbians... you know, the ones with actual careers, ambition, and a life they love, was harder than I expected.
I was sick of swiping through women who were “just curious,” still married to men, or had zero direction. Like, where were the high-value women? The ones who knew what they wanted, had their own thing going, and were actually ready for real commitment?
So, I did what any smart, slightly obsessive lesbian would do... I figured out a better way. I’ve spent over five years in the dating industry, working with over a thousand women to help them not just find love, but keep it.
As the founder of The Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen first-hand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to queer relationships.
What I do isn’t just matchmaking. It’s aligning energy, lifestyle, and long-term values.
If you’re a high-value woman who’s done wasting time on the wrong people and ready to meet someone who actually matches your energy, let’s talk.
Because love shouldn’t be a guessing game.
You deserve the real deal.
About The Founder
As a lesbian over 30, I KNOW love is not enough. Lifestyle compatibility is everything.
I came out at 29, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped into my truth.
But once I got here? Whew. Finding quality lesbians... you know, the ones with actual careers, ambition, and a life they love, was harder than I expected.
I was sick of swiping through women who were “just curious,” still married to men, or had zero direction. Like, where were the high-value women? The ones who knew what they wanted, had their own thing going, and were actually ready for real commitment?
So, I did what any smart, slightly obsessive lesbian would do... I figured out a better way. I’ve spent over five years in the dating industry, working with over a thousand women to help them not just find love, but keep it.
As the founder of The Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen firsthand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to queer relationships.
What I do isn’t just matchmaking. It’s aligning energy, lifestyle, and long-term values.
If you’re a high-value woman who’s done wasting time on the wrong people and ready to meet someone who actually matches your energy, let’s talk.
Because love shouldn’t be a guessing game.
You deserve the real deal.
IF YOU ARE TIRED OF
BASIC DATING APPS,
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Who We Match You With
We attract the kind of lesbians that everyone wants to date... but almost no one can find on their own. You know, the ones who are actually hard to meet in the wild because they’re busy living amazing lives.
Our clients are intelligent, ambitious, cultured, and self-made. They’re not just defined by their sexuality, they’re defined by the way they move through the world, initiating change, building successful careers, and creating lives they love. They’ve cultivated deep friendships, strong family bonds, and passions that go way beyond swiping on an app.
These women refuse to settle. They’re not interested in the typical dating scene full of flings, situationships, or time-wasters who “aren’t sure what they want.” They crave real, lasting connection with someone who shares their drive, their values, and their vision for the future.
And they get that finding the right partner is just as important as building a business, advancing a career, or achieving personal goals. They’re ready to put as much intention into their love life as they do into everything else they excel at.
That’s where we come in.
Our matchmaking pool is filled with distinguished, high-value women who trust us to help them find something real. They count on our expertise, insight, and ability to curate connections that actually go somewhere.
If you’re the kind of woman who knows her worth and won’t settle for anything less than extraordinary… you’re exactly the kind of client we match.
Who We Match You With
We attract the kind of lesbians that everyone wants to date... but almost no one can find on their own. You know, the ones who are actually hard to meet in the wild because they’re busy living amazing lives.
Our clients are intelligent, ambitious, cultured, and self-made. They’re not just defined by their sexuality, they’re defined by the way they move through the world, initiating change, building successful careers, and creating lives they love. They’ve cultivated deep friendships, strong family bonds, and passions that go way beyond swiping on an app.
These women refuse to settle. They’re not interested in the typical dating scene full of flings, situationships, or time-wasters who “aren’t sure what they want.” They crave real, lasting connection with someone who shares their drive, their values, and their vision for the future.
And they get that finding the right partner is just as important as building a business, advancing a career, or achieving personal goals. They’re ready to put as much intention into their love life as they do into everything else they excel at.
That’s where we come in.
Our matchmaking pool is filled with distinguished, high-value women who trust us to help them find something real. They count on our expertise, insight, and ability to curate connections that actually go somewhere.
If you’re the kind of woman who knows her worth and won’t settle for anything less than extraordinary… you’re exactly the kind of client we match.
Why Our Lesbian Matchmaking Process Works?
DISCREET SEARCHING
We work with high-caliber women who value their privacy. Everything shared with us stays strictly confidential while we quietly do the matchmaking magic behind the scenes. Take the first step to work with Sophia and let us handle the rest, discreetly and thoughtfully.
NO FAKE MEMBERS
No catfish. No “just curious” women. No married ladies looking for a side fling. A thorough screening process ensures that only those who genuinely express a readiness for a meaningful connection are welcomed into the network. If expectations don’t align, the match simply isn’t made.
EXCLUSIVITY MATTERS
We don’t take on just anyone. Our screening process helps ensure we’re working with high-value women who express they are truly looking for long-term love. If we don’t think they can meet your expectations? We won’t waste your time.
A PERSONALIZED APPROACH
Sophia Spallino and her team of real humans take a highly personalized approach to matchmaking. Every introduction is thoughtfully curated based on lifestyle, values, and long-term vision. You deserve one-on-one attention that is relationship-focused, intentional, and human from start to finish.
MORE THAN JUST AN INTRODUCTION
A great match is just the beginning. We provide insight, feedback, and expert guidance to help you navigate dating with confidence. From first impressions to deep connections, we set you up for long-term success.
CONFIDENTIALITY
Every part of this process is private and protected. No public profiles, no unnecessary exposure. Just high-touch, intentional matchmaking designed for those who take love as seriously as every other area of life.
This Is So Much More
Than The Most Elite
WLW Dating Platform
Participate in virtual matchmaking
so you get a chance to be matched with the women of your dreams who is looking for a long term monogamous relationship.
Valued at $1,164 annually...
Meet single lesbians live
at monthly virtual “Meetup and Mingle” events to connect live with other extraordinary queer women.
Valued at $528 annually...
Get access to a thriving community
of growth minded women for dating, friendship and networking where you will build meaningful relationships that foster personal and professional growth.
Priceless...
Join my quarterly community coaching
sessions to attract abundance into your life, step into your full potential and break through old patterns with life coaching.
Valued at $1,788 annually...
Join specially curated expert workshops
every quarter so you could level up in personal development, romantic relationships and professional opportunities.
Valued at $788 annually...
Get special privileges to exclusive events
simply by being a part of The Queer Country Club™.
Priceless...
How Much Does It
Cost To Join The
Queer Country Club™?!
This is not a regular old dating app; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ for high-value queer women that includes community events, virtual matching, and more!
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking requires a hefty investment
of $3k to $50k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is less than $50.
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price
of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get…
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5,000 to $50,000.
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is
less than $50!
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get...
1
INITIATION FEE
(One-Off Payment with Application)
$47 only
2
MEMBERSHIP FEE
(Recurring Monthly or Yearly Membership)
MONTHLY
$17
YEARLY
$97
How Much Does It
Cost To Join The
Queer Country Club™?!
This is not a regular old dating app; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ for high-value queer womxn that includes community events, virtual matching, and more!
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5,000 to $50,000.
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments
of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is barely $50.
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price
of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online membership can get…
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking requires a hefty investment of $3k to $50k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is
less than $50!
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get...
1
INITIATION FEE
(One-Off Payment with Application
$47 only
2
MEMBERSHIP FEE
(Recurring Monthly or Annual Membership)
Monthly
$17
or
Annual
$97
Participate In Virtual Matchmaking So You Get A Chance To Be Matched With The Women Of Your Dreams
Attend Monthly Virtual Meet-Ups Within The Community So You Get To Connect With Other Extraordinary Queer Women
Get Access to A Thriving Community of Growth-Minded Women for Dating, Friendship and Networking
Step Into Your Full Potential and Break Through Old Patterns With Life Coaching
Join Specially Curated Expert Workshops Every Quarter
Get Special Privileges To Exclusive Events Simply By Being A Part of The Queer Country Club™
Total Annual value Of The
Queer Country Club™
$4,268
But
Your Total Investment Is Only:
$47 + $97
Initiation Fee + Annual Access = Best Value
OR
$47 + $17
Initiation Fee + Monthly Access
Frequently Asked Questions
Will I only meet other clients of Sophia Spallino?
We will pair you with both clients of Sophia Spallino, members of the The Queer Country Club® and specific compatible singles we have sought out on your behalf.
But everyone we match and introduce has been vetted by us through a data collection process and background check.
What is different about Sophia Spallino's Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service?
Being a luxury personal service, we have a dedicated team led by Sophia Spallino working for you. Our goal is to match you with the person most compatible with your preferences.
We also provide personalized dating coaching to help you be your best self.
What does Sophia Spallino's luxury dating service include?
Sophia Spallino’s luxury dating service provides a personalized approach to matchmaking for high-achieving lesbians. The experience includes a one-on-one consultation, private profile development, carefully considered introductions, and optional post-date feedback. The process values privacy, intentionality, and discretion throughout.
How does the private lesbian matchmaking process work?
The private lesbian matchmaking process involves a comprehensive approach: an initial consultation to understand the client's personality and preferences, followed by curated match selection from an exclusive network, and post-date feedback to refine future matches.
What type of single lesbians will I meet?
We introduce you to vetted high-value, single, monogamous queer women who express their desire for a serious relationship. Our clients and potential matches come from diverse backgrounds, encompassing a wide range of ages, identities, ethnicities, education levels, professions, and interests.
What age range are your matchmaking clients?
Clients typically range from their 30s to 70s, though we welcome adults of all ages who are ready for serious relationships.
How large is your matchmaking database?
Our network includes thousands of singles across the U.S. and internationally, including members of the Queer Country Club® and beyond. Introductions are guided by shared interests, values, and stated preferences.
What are the benefits of using luxury matchmaking service?
Clients often appreciate the privacy, personalized support, and time-saving aspects of a luxury matchmaking experience… especially the opportunity to receive curated introductions based on their stated values, preferences, and goals.
Will my personal information be shared for marketing?
Private details are confidential.
We may share anonymized, non-identifying insights to protect client privacy while improving services. We may also reference non-identifying parts of a client’s journey in a way that honors their experience and never reveals any personally identifying information.
Your trust means everything. Privacy is always a top priority.
For more information, you can always review our terms of service and privacy policy here.
What is your refund policy?
We have a strict no refund or exchange policy.
Our service is deemed “used” after you have attended the first consultation with Sophia, as we immediately begin building your private profile and go on the hunt for your perfect match.
If you no longer wish to use our services, your may cancel the services. If you choose to stop using our services before the end of your services, you understand and accept that we will not be able to offer a refund, whether partially or in full, for the remaining part of your services.
For the sake of emphasis, we do not provide refunds, credit, or prorated billing for any canceled services. If you wish to cancel your services, you can do so directly by contacting our team at [email protected] with the subject line "PRIVATE MATCHMAKING SERVICE CANCELLATION".
To reach us about anything else, you may email [email protected], and our business mailing address is
Sophia Spallino LLC
C/O Registered Agents Inc.
201 Rue Beauregard STE 202
Lafayette LA 70508
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