Luxury One-on-One Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service
Concierge-level connection for women living extraordinary lives...
Luxury One-on-One Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service
Concierge-level connection for women living extraordinary lives...
YOU HAVE EVERYTHING...
EXCEPT YOUR FUTURE PARTNER™.
You’re a high-achieving lesbian who knows she deserves a high-caliber match and refuses to waste time on anything less.
What do you want? The caviar of queer women if you will...someone exceptional, ambitious, and ready for real commitment.
I personally know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
Let me bring her to you on a silver platter.
As you know, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
And for you, $2K–$10K to meet a rare, high-value woman? Beyond worth it.
Let me handpick your perfect match.
High caliber women. Handpicked for our clients.
Because Busy Professionals Don't Have Time To Waste Swiping on Basic LGBTQ+ Dating Apps...
High caliber women. Handpicked for our clients.
Because Busy Professionals Don't Have Time To Waste Swiping on Basic LGBTQ+ Dating Apps...
Meet Sophia Spallino:
The Personal Lesbian Matchmaker
Many high-achieving queer women prioritize meaningful connection and don’t entertain anything less.
That’s why I connect the “Caviar of Queer Women”...the rare, refined, ambitious, and ready for something real.
Hi, I'm Sophia Spallino, and I know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world... and I bring clients aligned, bespoke matches on a silver platter.
Of course, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
Packages range from $2K to $10K, a reflection of the time, care, and discernment that define every match.
Meet Sophia Spallino:
The Personal Lesbian Matchmaker
Many high-achieving queer women prioritize meaningful connection and don’t entertain anything less.
That’s why I connect the “Caviar of Queer Women”...the rare, refined, ambitious, and ready for something real.
Hi, I'm Sophia Spallino, and I know the most extraordinary lesbians in the world.
I bring clients aligned, bespoke matches on a silver platter.
Of course, the best things in life may be free, but the second best (like discreet, high-end matchmaking) is an investment.
Packages range from $2K to $10K, a reflection of the time, care, and discernment that define every match.
Our Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service Process
STEP #1:
INITIAL CONSULTATION AND
PRIVATE PROFILE CREATION
I take the time to truly get to know each client — personality, lifestyle, dating history, family background, personal and professional goals, spiritual values, and the physical and emotional traits that tend to inspire attraction and long-term compatibility.
During this process, I create a private Platinum Profile that lives behind the scenes, used solely to navigate my exclusive matchmaking network and hand-select introductions that reflect each client’s unique values and vision for love.
STEP #2:
SELECTION PROCESS
Our Platinum Private Matchmaking process is intentionally intimate and selective. While we maintain a growing database of thousands, matches are never rushed or algorithm-driven.
In addition to members of The Queer Country Club®, new inquiries are received daily from singles interested in joining our network allowing for a consistent flow of potential matches.
Still, as many in the queer dating world understand, deeply aligned partnerships are rare and worth the effort to uncover.
The team evaluates each potential match through a careful screening process. Compatibility, lifestyle fit, and relationship vision are all taken into account. Only those who align with a client’s values and preferences and pass background checks are considered for potential introductions.
STEP #3:
PERSONALIZED
MATCH REVIEW
We take a hands-on approach to matchmaking, personally connecting with clients to review thoughtfully selected introductions. Each potential match is evaluated based on compatibility indicators, shared values, and relationship intentions.
STEP #4:
POST-DATE FEEDBACK AND
ONGOING MATCHMAKING
Follow-up is a key part of our personalized process. After introductions, feedback is gathered from both parties to support thoughtful, ongoing matchmaking and alignment.
Our Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service Process
STEP #1:
INITIAL CONSULTATION AND
PRIVATE PROFILE CREATION
I take the time to truly get to know each client — personality, lifestyle, dating history, family background, personal and professional goals, spiritual values, and the physical and emotional traits that tend to inspire attraction and long-term compatibility.
During this process, I create a private Platinum Profile that lives behind the scenes, used solely to navigate my exclusive matchmaking network and hand-select introductions that reflect each client’s unique values and vision for love.
STEP #2:
SELECTION PROCESS
Our Platinum Private Matchmaking process is intentionally intimate and selective. While we maintain a growing database of thousands, matches are never rushed or algorithm-driven.
In addition to members of The Queer Country Club®, new inquiries are received daily from singles interested in joining our network — allowing for a consistent flow of potential matches.
Still, as many in the queer dating world understand, deeply aligned partnerships are rare — and worth the effort to uncover.
The team evaluates each potential match through a careful screening process. Compatibility, lifestyle fit, and relationship vision are all taken into account. Only those who align with a client’s values and preferences — and pass background checks — are considered for potential introductions.
STEP #3:
PERSONALIZED
MATCH REVIEW
We take a hands-on approach to matchmaking, personally connecting with clients to review thoughtfully selected introductions. Each potential match is evaluated based on compatibility indicators, shared values, and relationship intentions.
STEP #4:
POST-DATE FEEDBACK AND
ONGOING MATCHMAKING
Follow-up is a key part of our personalized process. After introductions, feedback is gathered from both parties to support thoughtful, ongoing matchmaking and alignment.
What Clients Are Saying
What Clients Are Saying
Disclaimer: These testimonials reflect real experiences from clients who have worked with Sophia Spallino LLC/The Queer Country Club® across different services, including private matchmaking and the Queer Country Club®. Results vary and are not guaranteed.
Ways To Work
With Sophia Spallino
PRIVATE LUXURY LESBIAN™ MATCHMAKING
Perfect for the private woman who wants us to do the heavy lifting
Curated matchmaking, personally sourcing, vetting, and introducing women who match your vision so you don’t waste time swiping or settling
Starts with a $333 consultation and the full investment ranges from $2k to $10k
Note: If you realize during the call that luxury matchmaking isn't the right fit, Sophia will be sure you leave with personalized dating strategy and coaching.
THE QUEER COUNTRY CLUB®
Meet quality, high-value monogamous lesbians
Swipe-less dating club experience
Live virtual singles events
Proprietary AI Matching
As low as $17 per month
THE LUXURY LESBIAN™ EXPERIENCE
Event designed for growth-minded WLW women looking for love, connection, and high-caliber queer community
Hosted by the Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, with a legacy of creating meaningful connections
A thoughtfully curated single lesbian experience for women who understand the power of the right room
PERSONAL COACHING WITH SOPHIA SPALLINO
Dating strategies and relationship advice
Support reentering the dating world
Breakup breakthrough closure practices
$333 per session
About The Founder
As a lesbian over 30, I’ve learned that love alone isn’t enough. Lifestyle compatibility matters just as much.
I came out at 29, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped into my truth.
But once I got here…Whew! Finding ambitious, emotionally available queer women (the kind with real direction and desire for something lasting) was harder than I expected.
I was sick of swiping. Tired of the confusion. Tired of matching with women who weren’t actually ready or still figuring themselves out. It left me wondering: where were the women who knew what they wanted and were ready for real commitment?
So I did what any slightly obsessive, self-aware lesbian would do. I created a better way. I’ve spent the last five years in the dating industry, working with over a thousand queer women to help them not just find love, but keep it.
As the founder of The Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen firsthand what works (and what doesn’t) in queer relationships.
What I do isn’t just matchmaking. It’s a process focused on compatibility, lifestyle alignment, and shared values.
For those ready to move with clarity, Platinum Private Matchmaking offers a personalized path forward.
Aligned love is possible. And it may be closer than expected.
About The Founder
As a lesbian over 30, I’ve learned that love alone isn’t enough. Lifestyle compatibility matters just as much.
I came out at 29, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped into my truth.
But once I got here? Whew.
Finding ambitious, emotionally available queer women — the kind with real direction and desire for something lasting — was harder than I expected.
I was sick of swiping. Tired of the confusion. Tired of matching with women who weren’t actually ready or still figuring themselves out. It left me wondering: where were the women who knew what they wanted and were ready for real commitment?
So I did what any slightly obsessive, self-aware lesbian would do. I created a better way. I’ve spent the last five years in the dating industry, working with over a thousand queer women to help them not just find love, but keep it.
As the founder of The Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen firsthand what works (and what doesn’t) in queer relationships.
What I do isn’t just matchmaking. It’s a process focused on compatibility, lifestyle alignment, and shared values.
For those ready to move with clarity, Platinum Private Matchmaking offers a personalized path forward.
Aligned love is possible. And it may be closer than expected.
IF YOU ARE TIRED OF
BASIC DATING APPS,
YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Who We Match
We attract the kind of lesbians who turn heads… The ones who are rarely found on apps or at the bar, because they’re busy living full, extraordinary lives.
Our clients are intelligent, ambitious, cultured, and self-made. They’re not just defined by their sexuality. They’re defined by the way they move through the world initiating change, building careers, and creating lives they love. They’ve cultivated deep friendships, strong family bonds, and passions that reach far beyond dating apps.
These women refuse to settle. They’re not interested in flings, situationships, or wasting time with those who aren’t clear about what they want. They crave something real. Something lasting. A connection rooted in shared values, drive, and vision for the future.
For them, finding the right partner is just as important as building a business, advancing a career, or growing personally. They bring intention to their love life the same way they show up for everything else they care deeply about.
That’s where we come in.
Our matchmaking pool includes distinguished, emotionally aware women who appreciate the structure and support of a personalized introduction process. With careful consideration and ongoing feedback, our team facilitates introductions designed to reflect lifestyle alignment and shared values.
This is curated connection for women who are intentional about love and open to meeting someone who is too.
Who We Match
We attract the kind of lesbians who turn heads — the ones who are rarely found on apps or at the bar, because they’re busy living full, extraordinary lives.
Our clients are intelligent, ambitious, cultured, and self-made. They’re not just defined by their sexuality. They’re defined by the way they move through the world — initiating change, building careers, and creating lives they love. They’ve cultivated deep friendships, strong family bonds, and passions that reach far beyond dating apps.
These women refuse to settle. They’re not interested in flings, situationships, or wasting time with those who aren’t clear about what they want. They crave something real. Something lasting. A connection rooted in shared values, drive, and vision for the future.
For them, finding the right partner is just as important as building a business, advancing a career, or growing personally. They bring intention to their love life the same way they show up for everything else they care deeply about.
That’s where we come in.
Our matchmaking pool includes distinguished, emotionally aware women who appreciate the structure and support of a personalized introduction process. With careful consideration and ongoing feedback, our team facilitates introductions designed to reflect lifestyle alignment and shared values.
This is curated connection for women who are intentional about love — and open to meeting someone who is too.
What Sets Our Matchmaking Process Apart?
DISCREET SEARCHING
This process attracts distinguished women who value privacy. All shared information remains confidential while the matchmaking work happens quietly behind the scenes. Every step is handled with care and professionalism.
VERIFIED MATCHES ONLY
Every member is vetted and verified before entering the matchmaking pool. This helps ensure that each introduction is made with those who express clear intentions and are genuinely interested in long-term partnership.
EXCLUSIVITY MATTERS
Not everyone is accepted. A thorough screening process helps ensure that only those who express genuine readiness for meaningful connection are welcomed into the network. If expectations don’t align, the match simply isn’t made.
A PERSONALIZED APPROACH
Sophia Spallino and her team of real humans take a highly personalized approach to matchmaking. Every introduction is thoughtfully curated based on lifestyle, values, and long-term vision. This isn’t automated or mass-produced. It’s relationship-focused, intentional, and human from start to finish.
MORE THAN AN INTRODUCTION
A great match is just the beginning. Ongoing feedback, expert insight, and thoughtful support are all part of the proceess, designed to nurture meaningful connection from first impressions to deeper partnership. We think beyond a first date.
PRIVACY-FIRST EXPERIENCE
Every part of this process is private and protected. No public profiles, no unnecessary exposure… just high-touch, intentional matchmaking designed for those who take love as seriously as every other area of life.
Join the FREE Luxury Lesbian™
Singles Circle Waitlist to meet intentional queer women
Join the FREE Luxury Lesbian™
Singles Circle Waitlist to meet intentional queer women
This Is So Much More
Than The Most Elite
WLW Dating Platform
Participate in virtual matchmaking
so you get a chance to be matched with the women of your dreams who is looking for a long term monogamous relationship.
Valued at $1,164 annually...
Meet single lesbians live
at monthly virtual “Meetup and Mingle” events to connect live with other extraordinary queer women.
Valued at $528 annually...
Get access to a thriving community
of growth minded women for dating, friendship and networking where you will build meaningful relationships that foster personal and professional growth.
Priceless...
Join my quarterly community coaching
sessions to attract abundance into your life, step into your full potential and break through old patterns with life coaching.
Valued at $1,788 annually...
Join specially curated expert workshops
every quarter so you could level up in personal development, romantic relationships and professional opportunities.
Valued at $788 annually...
Get special privileges to exclusive events
simply by being a part of The Queer Country Club™.
Priceless...
How Much Does It
Cost To Join The
Queer Country Club™?!
This is not a regular old dating app; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ for high-value queer women that includes community events, virtual matching, and more!
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking requires a hefty investment
of $3k to $50k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is less than $50.
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price
of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get…
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5,000 to $50,000.
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is
less than $50!
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get...
1
INITIATION FEE
(One-Off Payment with Application)
$47 only
2
MEMBERSHIP FEE
(Recurring Monthly or Yearly Membership)
MONTHLY
$17
YEARLY
$97
How Much Does It
Cost To Join The
Queer Country Club™?!
This is not a regular old dating app; it’s the exclusive Queer Country Club™ for high-value queer womxn that includes community events, virtual matching, and more!
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5,000 to $50,000.
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments
of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is barely $50.
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price
of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online membership can get…
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking requires a hefty investment of $3k to $50k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is
less than $50!
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online member can get...
1
INITIATION FEE
(One-Off Payment with Application
$47 only
2
MEMBERSHIP FEE
(Recurring Monthly or Annual Membership)
Monthly
$17
or
Annual
$97
Participate In Virtual Matchmaking So You Get A Chance To Be Matched With The Women Of Your Dreams
Attend Monthly Virtual Meet-Ups Within The Community So You Get To Connect With Other Extraordinary Queer Women
Get Access to A Thriving Community of Growth-Minded Women for Dating, Friendship and Networking
Step Into Your Full Potential and Break Through Old Patterns With Life Coaching
Join Specially Curated Expert Workshops Every Quarter
Get Special Privileges To Exclusive Events Simply By Being A Part of The Queer Country Club™
Total Annual value Of The
Queer Country Club™
$4,268
But
Your Total Investment Is Only:
$47 + $97
Initiation Fee + Annual Access = Best Value
OR
$47 + $17
Initiation Fee + Monthly Access
Frequently Asked Questions
Are matches exclusively from Sophia Spallino’s client network?
While many introductions come from our member base, we also connect clients with compatible singles from a wider, curated pool. Everyone introduced is vetted through a thoughtful screening process.
How is Sophia Spallino’s Private Lesbian Matchmaking Service unique?
This luxury service includes a hands-on team approach led by Sophia Spallino herself. We prioritize intentional, high-touch matchmaking with a focus on values and meaningful connection.
Clients work directly with a dedicated team, receiving personalized support and dating coaching throughout the journey.
What is included in Sophia Spallino’s luxury matchmaking experience?
The service typically involves a consultation, creation of a private profile, curated introductions, and optional post-introduction feedback. The experience emphasizes thoughtful connection and intentional support.
What does the Private Lesbian Matchmaking process involve?
The process starts with a consultation to understand your personality and preferences. We then select introductions based on compatibility, and offer support throughout the journey.
What kind of women are included in the matchmaking pool?
We work with women from diverse backgrounds, identities, and life experiences who are interested in building meaningful, monogamous connections.
What is the typical age range of clients in the matchmaking network?
Clients typically range from their 30s to 70s, though we welcome adults of all ages who are ready for serious relationships.
How large is the matchmaking database?
Our network includes thousands of singles across the U.S. and internationally, including members of Queer Country Club® and beyond. Introductions are guided by shared interests, values, and stated preferences.
What are the advantages of a luxury matchmaking experience?
Clients often appreciate the privacy, personalized support, and time-saving aspects of a luxury matchmaking experience… especially the opportunity to receive curated introductions based on their stated values, preferences, and goals.
Is client information ever shared for marketing purposes?
Private details are confidential. We may share anonymized, non-identifying insights to protect client privacy while improving services.
We may also reference non-identifying parts of a client’s journey in a way that honors their experience and never reveals any personally identifying information.
Trust means everything. Privacy is always a top priority.
For more information, review our terms of service and privacy policy here.
What is the refund policy for services?
Matchmaking services are non-refundable. Once the initial consultation is completed, services are considered active, and our team begins working on behalf of the client. This includes profile creation, internal matchmaking processes, and curation of potential introductions.
Clients may choose to cancel their services at any time. However, no refunds, credits, or prorated adjustments are available for unused time or remaining services once the process has started.
To request a cancellation, please email our team at [email protected] with the subject line "PRIVATE MATCHMAKING SERVICE CANCELLATION."
For any other inquiries, contact us at the same email address. Business correspondence may also be sent to:
Sophia Spallino LLC
C/O Registered Agents Inc.
201 Rue Beauregard, STE 202
Lafayette, LA 70508
The Queer Country Club® by Sophia Spallino
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