
5 Best Lesbian Dating Shows You Can Binge Right Now
Let’s be real, there’s nothing quite like a dating show binge when you’re nursing a hangover, avoiding texts, or just craving some good old sapphic chaos. Over the past few years, lesbian dating shows have slowly broken into mainstream media. And thank the queer goddesses above, because we were tired of watching hetero couples fight over roses.
From messy love triangles to heartfelt vulnerability, these shows aren’t just addictive, they’re part of a cultural shift. We’re finally seeing women who love women on screen in all their messy, magnetic, heart-eyed glory.
And while they’re entertaining (sometimes deliciously cringey), they also reflect the queer community’s hunger for representation and visibility.
So, whether you’re in the mood for chaos, chemistry, or commitment, these are the best lesbian dating shows that should be at the top of your watchlist.
5 Best Lesbian Dating Shows That Will Keep You Hooked
1. The Ultimatum: Queer Love (Netflix)
Platform: Netflix
Why it’s binge-worthy: The drama. The breakdowns. The love declarations. And of course, the sheer emotional chaos of giving someone an ultimatum.
This lesbian dating show on Netflix centers queer couples, many of whom are unsure about commitment. One partner issues the ultimatum…marry me or we break up. It’s shit or get off the pot kind of energy. It’s the exact kind of drama you’d hate in your real life, but can’t stop watching on screen.
Warning: It’s intense. But also? Relatable AF. Especially if you’ve ever loved someone who wasn’t ready.
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2. Dating Around: Lex Edition (Netflix)
Platform: Netflix
Why it’s binge-worthy: A more subtle approach to lesbian dating reality shows, this episode of Dating Around features Lex, a soft-spoken, charming queer woman navigating blind dates in New Orleans.
It’s awkward. It's heart-warming. It feels real in the best way.
3. Tampa Baes (Amazon Prime)
Platform: Amazon Prime
Why it’s binge-worthy: A high-gloss, drama-filled docuseries that follows a group of lesbian influencers living their best (and messiest) lives in Tampa Bay.
It’s part friendship drama, part queer visibility, and full sapphic tension. Think Real Housewives, but everyone is gay.
4. Coming Out Colton (Netflix)
Platform: Netflix
Why it’s binge-worthy: Okay, okay, it’s not technically a lesbian dating show, but hear us out: it’s a deeply personal documentary where Colton Underwood explores his queerness and identity. There’s something affirming about any queer love journey on a platform as big as Netflix.
And hey, visibility for the LGBTQ+ community is a win for us all.
5. Queer Women Rising – Podcast by Sophia Spallino
Platform: All major podcast apps (Tap here to access)
Why it’s binge-worthy: A fresh twist on the format, this isn’t your typical lesbian dating reality show. But it is one of the most emotionally intelligent listens for queer women navigating love.
Sophia dives into stories of women working through heartbreak, boundaries, and emotional maturity. Less fluff, more depth.
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Conclusion
Sure, lesbian dating shows are wild, beautiful, chaotic escapism. They entertain. They validate. They let us see parts of ourselves reflected, messiness and all.
But when you’re ready to turn off the screen and turn on real connection, remember: you deserve a love story that isn’t scripted.
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Until then? Keep bingeing. And maybe take a few notes along the way.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What is the new lesbian dating show called?
The Ultimatum: Queer Love is currently the new lesbian dating show on everyone’s radar.
2. Are there any lesbian dating reality shows?
Yes! Shows like Tampa Baes, The Ultimatum: Queer Love, and Dating Around feature queer women front and center.
3. Where can I watch lesbian TV shows?
Netflix, Amazon Prime, and Hulu are leading platforms offering lesbian dating shows on Netflix and beyond.
4. What is the lesbian dating show on Hulu?
While Hulu has many queer-themed dramas, most lesbian dating shows are currently on Netflix and Amazon.
5. What is the name of the lesbian show on HBO?
Shows like Gentleman Jack feature lesbian leads but aren’t technically dating shows. HBO is catching up, though!
6. What is the Netflix lesbian love show?
The Ultimatum: Queer Love and Dating Around are your best bets for lesbian dating shows on Netflix.
7. Are there any reality Lesbian Dating Shows on Netflix or Hulu?
Yes, several! Try The Ultimatum: Queer Love, Tampa Baes, and Coming Out Colton.
8. What’s the best lesbian podcast?
Queer Women Rising by Sophia Spallino is deeply introspective and emotionally intelligent, perfect if you’re tired of shallow dating talk.
9. Where can I meet high-value lesbians who want to skip the dating drama?
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