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Tired of swiping through endless profiles? Discover lesbian dating in New York and meet singles who are seeking meaningful connections.
Find more than just a date - find your Future Partner® at The Queer Country Club®. With exclusive virtual events designed to bring like-minded queer women together. Experience the vibrant New York dating scene with us!
New York City has a thriving lesbian dating scene, drawing people from nearby areas such as Brooklyn, Queens, Jersey City, Hoboken, Yonkers, and Long Island. From LGBTQ+ sessions and social groups to community spaces and nightlife, there are many ways to meet new people and build meaningful connections.
For those looking to expand their circle, The Queer Country Club® offers welcoming events and experiences that help foster genuine friendships, community, and relationships across New York and the surrounding region.

If gay bars, queer dating apps, and polyamory aren't your thing...

New York City has a thriving lesbian dating scene, drawing people from nearby areas such as Brooklyn, Queens, Jersey City, Hoboken, Yonkers, and Long Island. From LGBTQ+ sessions and social groups to community spaces and nightlife, there are many ways to meet new people and build meaningful connections.
For those looking to expand their circle, The Queer Country Club® offers welcoming events and experiences that help foster genuine friendships, community, and relationships across New York and the surrounding region.
The Queer Country Club® is the premier platform for lesbian dating in New York, designed to connect women-loving-women in a safe, inclusive, and elite online space. Whether you’re desiring love, friendship, or meaningful connections, The Queer Country Club® offers tailored features that make lesbian dating in New York seamless and enjoyable.
EXCLUSIVE WLW DATING CLUB, NOT A BASIC APP
This is not your typical free queer dating app packed with millions of women you wouldn’t consider dating. Our exclusive club is designed for monogamous, growth-minded queer women who are ready for a long-term relationship, and membership is granted only to those who successfully pass our application process.
"MEET YOUR FUTURE WIFE® LIVE" VIRTUAL LESBIAN SPEED DATING
Looking for your Future Partner® without the hassle of leaving home? We’ve got you. In-person speed dating can be overwhelming and time-consuming. That’s why we host relaxed virtual speed dating with extraordinary women from around the globe. Settle in for a cozy evening of speed dating, tailored to your lifestyle.
VIRTUAL MATCHMAKING
Paying extra for matches on other apps? Not here! AI matchmaking is included with your membership. Traditional matchmaking often costs $5,000 to $150,000… But with us, it’s all part of the experience. Our AI Matchmaker, Sapphic Sophi, is ready to connect you with women who align with your values, lifestyle, and physical preferences. Start matching smarter today!
SWIPE-LESS EXPERIENCE
We’re proud to be the first and most elite swipe-free, community-based lesbian dating platform. Ever dreamed of a virtual Rolodex of the most incredible lesbians on the planet? Our platform features a central member directory that’s easy to explore! The best part? Because women are screened and this is a paid service, it's not filled with typical dating app scammers and fake profiles!
LIVE COACHING
Do basic dating apps offer live coaching? Nope! But our lesbian founder, Sophia Spallino, hosts intimate, live, virtual, transformative coaching events. Plus, get access to mindset, dating, and relationship workshops led by guest experts. Don’t miss out on self-growth or the chance to meet your Future Wife® in the virtual room!
UNFILTERED WOMEN
On other dating platforms, it’s easy to worry about fake, overly filtered photos and meeting someone who looks nothing like their profile. Let’s be real… what you see online should match what you get in real life. That’s not too much to ask, right? That’s why we strictly prohibit filtered photos and host virtual events to help ensure authenticity!
VALUE-BASED CHATROOMS
Our topic-focused chatrooms are designed to foster genuine connections and meaningful conversations. Whether you're discussing shared interests, exchanging advice, or exploring deeper topics, these spaces make it easy to connect authentically. Plus, our voice chat room adds an extra layer of connection, letting you engage in real-time discussions.
The Queer Country Club® is not just a dating site; it’s a vibrant community built for women-loving-women. From curated matches to engaging sessions, the platform fosters connections that go beyond typical online lesbian dating in New York.
The Queer Country Club® is the go-to space for WLW where you’re sure to find a supportive and empowering environment for women looking to connect in meaningful ways.






$4,268
This is what The Queer Country Club® delivers in annual value… NOT the price you pay.
Our membership rate is only a small fraction of this, with plans at $17 or $97, making intentional, high-caliber lesbian dating accessible to more monogamous queer women.
Most country clubs charge an average initiation fee of $5,000 to $50,000.
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments
of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is barely $50.
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price
of a few oat milk chai lattes.
It is as affordable as becoming an online membership can get…
Most country clubs require an investment of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking ranges from $5k to $150k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is under $50.
And our monthly membership is less than the price of two oat milk chai lattes.
There is no other platform created exclusively for single, monogamous queer women who want lasting love.
It is as affordable as becoming a premium online member can get…
$47 only
2
Monthly
$17
or
Annual
$97

Most country clubs require an investment of $5k to $50k.
Traditional matchmaking ranges from $5k to $150k!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is under $50.
And our monthly membership is less than the price
of two oat milk chai lattes.
There is no other platform created exclusively for single, monogamous queer women
who want lasting love.
It is as affordable as becoming a premium online member can get…
Traditional matchmaking requires hefty investments of $3,000 to $50,000!
And us?
Our one-time initiation fee is
less than $50!
And our monthly membership fee is less than the price of a few oat milk chai lattes.
1
(One-Off Payment with Application)
$47 Only
2
(Recurring Monthly or Yearly Membership)
MONTHLY
$17
ANNUAL
$97

Ready to start your journey toward finding love?
The Queer Country Club® offers all the right tools, community, and support to help you connect with single lesbians truly ready to find love across the United States. Don’t wait - join today and discover the best lesbian dating site in the USA, where love and companionship are just a click away!
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Step Into Your Full Potential and Break Through Old Patterns With Live Life Coaching
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There are numerous ways to meet lesbians in New York, from LGBTQ+ bars and clubs to joining platforms like The Queer Country Club® for serious relationships and events!
Lesbians in NYC tend to live in inclusive, diverse neighborhoods such as Brooklyn’s Williamsburg, Park Slope, and Greenpoint, as well as Manhattan's Lower East Side and East Village, where there are vibrant queer communities.
For strong queer women desiring a monogamous Future Partner®, it’s best to sign-up to The Queer Country Club®, which comes with loads of features and opportunities.
Older lesbians in NYC can often be found in community spaces that cater to a diverse age range - from classic bars to renowned cafes!
Yes, New York City is widely recognized as one of the world's most queer-friendly cities where every individuality is respected and wholeheartedly embraced.
Yes! The Queer Country Club® welcomes lesbian singles throughout New York. Whether you're looking for dating, or a long-term relationship, our platform helps connect like-minded women in a welcoming and inclusive environment.
Absolutely. Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking service offers a confidential and highly personalized approach to lesbian dating in New York. Designed for women who value privacy and meaningful connections, the service provides carefully curated introductions based on compatibility and relationship goals.
The Luxury Lesbian™ Experience provides exclusive, invite-only gatherings where lesbian women can connect in an elegant and relaxed setting. These curated events bring together women from New York City and surrounding areas, creating opportunities for genuine conversations, meaningful relationships, and lasting connections.
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We create opportunities for meaningful connection based on compatibility, preferences, and participation. Results vary by individual engagement and alignment. We facilitate introductions… not specific outcomes, and do not guarantee matches or relationship results.
Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking - Luxury Lesbian™ Experience
Terms Of Service - Privacy Policy - General FAQs - Contact Us
We create opportunities for meaningful connection based on compatibility, preferences, and participation. Results vary by individual engagement and alignment. We facilitate introductions… not specific outcomes, and do not guarantee matches or relationship results.